Have you ever wondered what makes relationships tick when neurodiversity is involved? My guest today is Barbara, a neurodiverse couples coach who shares invaluable insights from her personal and professional experience. Barbara's own family members are autistic or have ADHD, so she understands firsthand how wiring differences can impact connections. She explains common communication challenges and "spoon theory" fatigue in beautiful, non-judgmental ways. There's so much compassion here! You'll discover helpful strategies like boundaries, shame reduction, "space & grace," trauma healing, and leaning into your own growth. Barbara equips people to understand themselves, accept differences, and unlock healthier relating. She also gives an inside look at her upcoming book "Uniquely Us," for Christian neurodiverse couples. But the practical tools apply more widely. I think you'll be encouraged by her wisdom and warmth! Let me know what most resonates after you listen. Wishing you grace on your journey!
In this episode, you will be able to:
Discover effective coaching strategies for neurodiverse couples to strengthen your relationship and communication.
Uncover the impact of neurodiversity in relationships and gain insight into navigating challenges with empathy and understanding.
Learn how to manage neurodiversity within family dynamics, creating a supportive and harmonious environment for everyone.
Explore the unique dynamics of marital relationships involving autism and ADHD, and gain valuable insights for fostering a fulfilling partnership.
Embrace the power of spiritual counseling to support neurodiverse individuals on their journey towards holistic well-being and fulfillment.
My special guest is Barbara Grant
Barbara Grant, a neurodiverse couples coach and spiritual counselor, draws from her personal experiences and professional expertise to provide invaluable insights into the complexities of neurodiverse relationships. With a background shaped by her own family dynamics and her journey of supporting two neurodiverse husbands and a son, Barbara has developed a profound understanding of the impact of neurodiversity in relationships. Her extensive work includes being an editor and contributing author of the book "Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage, Autism, and Faith," highlighting her dedication to the field. Through her international coaching practice, Barbara offers a roadmap to hope and healing, specializing in guiding neurodiverse couples and individuals towards stronger, healthier relationships. Her expertise and commitment make her an invaluable resource for those seeking support and understanding within the neurodiverse community.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:03:51 - Understanding Neurodiversity
00:10:29 - Neurodiverse Relationships
00:11:00 - Neurodiverse Perspectives
00:15:02 - The Masking Experience
00:16:00 - Relational Stress and Self-Soothing
00:19:46 - Coaching Neurodiverse Couples
00:23:32 - Uniquely Us: A Book for Hope and Healing
00:28:29 - Addressing Shame and Unhealthy Behaviors
00:29:46 - Understanding Survival Mode and Trauma
00:32:36 - Healing Wounds in Marriage
00:34:36 - Navigating Neurodiversity in Faith Communities
00:39:06 - Accessing Support and Resources
00:43:29 - Embracing Neurodiversity and Building Relationships
00:45:20 - Exclusive Mini on Patreon
00:46:09 - Navigating Life's Challenges
00:47:33 - Global Reach and Impact
00:48:15 - Building Deeper Relationships
00:48:43 - Words of Encouragement
The resources mentioned in this episode are:
Pre-order the book Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage, Autism, and Faith edited by Barbara Grant.
Connect with Barbara Grant for coaching and support in navigating neurodiverse relationships. Barbara offers free 20-30 minute consultations to provide guidance and support. www.BG-HC.com
Share the podcast with friends, family, or colleagues to spark meaningful conversations about neurodiversity, relationships, and making a difference in the world. Encourage others to listen and engage
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