Songwriting As Self-Expression: Shannan Copland's Journey From Self-Doubt To Embracing Her Voice


Does this sound familiar? Have you ever felt the pressure of unrealistic expectations weighing you down, leaving you questioning your worth? It's a struggle many of us face, especially as women, and it can be incredibly disheartening. But what if there was a way to break free from the cycle and embrace your true self-worth? Let's dive into how embracing individuality and self-worth through empowering messages in music can transform your life.
My special guest is Shannan Copland
Shannan Copland, an indie pop artist based in Portland, Oregon, is recognized for her impactful and relatable music as a singer/songwriter. Born and raised in the SF Bay Area, California, she studied music from a young age, with a strong foundation in piano and vocal training. Collaborating with musicians and educators globally, including ones in Norway, Italy, and Portugal, has enriched her musical style with diverse cultural influences. With a love for piano and voice, she involved herself in every musical opportunity available and her passion for songwriting ignited during her teenage years. After high school, Shannan toured the United States with a group singing in schools and also performed in a theater. Her upcoming release "Enough" is poised to further empower women by promoting self-worth and authenticity. Shannan's music contains powerful messages that resonate with audiences, offering a source of strength and self-acceptance, particularly for women navigating their unique journeys.
Shannan and her husband spent the first decade of their marriage mostly living abroad in Portugal and Italy where they started a non-profit organization together. Working with talented musicians, artists and individuals from around the globe combined with her experiences living abroad have influenced her perspectives on life and the world around her which also reflect in her songwriting. Now, as she releases her own music, Shannan hopes to encourage, inspire, and provoke deeper thought through her music for listeners.
Her newest single “Enough” releases on April 12 and serves as the underlying anthem of much of her music. With its driving pop rock beat, “Enough” inspires listeners to be their authentic selves, reject image management, and not let other’s opinions or standards hold them back from achieving their aspirations.
"You are enough. The world may think otherwise of you, but it doesn't matter. Their opinions do not change your worth. Stand in that worth." - Shannan Copland
In this episode, you will be able to:
- Discover how Shannan Copland's indie pop music inspires self-acceptance and empowerment for women.
- Explore the profound impact of music on boosting self-worth and confidence for women.
- Uncover the creative songwriting process and inspirational sources behind empowering music for women.
- Understand the diverse cultural perspectives on modesty and beauty and their influence on harmful expectations for women.
- Embrace the empowering messages in Shannan's music that uplift and empower women to embrace their individuality and worth.
Uncover Shannan's Inspirational Songwriting Process
Shannan Copland's songwriting process stems from personal experiences and challenges societal expectations, offering a reflective and empowering narrative. Her music reflects her journey of self-discovery and the transformative power of embracing individual differences. By sharing her vulnerabilities and struggles, Copland connects with her audience on a profound level and inspires them to embrace their worth through her empowering messages.
The resources mentioned in this episode are:
- Sign up for Shannan Copland's newsletter on her website, ShannanCopland.com, to get an early sneak peek and listen to her new song Enough before its official release on April 12.
- Follow Shannan Copland on Instagram and other social platforms at ShannonCoplandmusic to stay updated on her latest releases and news.
- Listen to Shannan Copland's new song Enough on Spotify or your preferred music streaming platform on April 12, and share it with your friends and family to spread the empowering message.
- Show your support for Shannan Copland by adding her music to your playlists and sharing it with others who may benefit from her inspiring and uplifting songs.
- Stay tuned for Shannan Copland's upcoming releases, including a fun summer song and an emotional track for Mother's Day, to continue experiencing her meaningful and thought-provoking music.
"I want people to, after they hear this song, just to feel liberated and feel that they're worthy and that they can go out and face whatever challenges they have ahead in their own skin and be confident in that."
- Shannan Copland
Boosting Self-Worth through Music
Copland's music serves as a source of empowerment for women, promoting self-acceptance and confidence. By delivering messages of self-worth and authenticity, her songs help listeners overcome feelings of inadequacy and societal pressures. Through her music, Copland advocates for celebrating one's uniqueness and finding strength in one's individuality.
"There's only one you, and we want you to keep being you. So keep making a difference wherever you are." - Lori Adams Brown
Explore Shannan Copland's Empowering Music
Shannan Copland's music offers a powerful message of self-worth and authenticity, resonating with women seeking empowerment. Her songs embody a sense of liberation and encourage listeners to embrace their individuality. Through her music, Copland inspires her audience to recognize their value and celebrate their unique qualities.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:00:02 - Introducing Shannon Copland and her Music
00:01:14 - Shannon's Musical Journey and Mentors
00:07:01 - The Pressure of Expectations and Self-Worth
00:09:33 - Empowering Women and Girls Through Music
00:13:18 - Overcoming Barriers as a Singer-Songwriter
00:15:14 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Beauty and Modesty
00:18:09 - Nuances of Modesty and Purity Culture
00:20:32 - The Larger Narrative of Shannan's Music
00:24:43 - Musical Influences on Shannan's Style
00:26:44 - Teaser of "Enough" and Closing Remarks
00:31:32 - Embracing Uniqueness
00:32:23 - Shannon's Music and Message
00:33:20 - Amplifying Shannon's Voice
00:34:27 - You Are Enough
00:35:35 - Keep Being You
Timestamped summary of this episode:
00:00:02 - Introducing Shannon Copland and her Music
Lori introduces Shannon and her upcoming release of a new song called "Enough" on April 12. Shannon's background in music and her passion for songwriting is also highlighted.
00:01:14 - Shannon's Musical Journey and Mentors
Shannon discusses her early interest in music, her studies, and the influential mentors she has worked with. She emphasizes the impact of her experiences on her musical journey.
00:07:01 - The Pressure of Expectations and Self-Worth
Shannon reflects on the pressure of meeting expectations in her religious upbringing and the importance of recognizing one's worth beyond external opinions. The impact of societal expectations on women and girls is also discussed.
00:09:33 - Empowering Women and Girls Through Music
Shannon shares the inspiration behind her song "Enough" and the message of self-empowerment and worth it conveys. She discusses the hope of empowering future generations of women through her music.
00:13:18 - Overcoming Barriers as a Singer-Songwriter
Shannon opens up about the internal and external barriers she faces as a songwriter, including self-doubt and the pressure of image management. She emphasizes the importance of living authentically and embracing one's true self.
00:15:14 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Beauty and Modesty
Shannan discusses her experiences in Italy and how it shed light on cultural perspectives on beauty and modesty, challenging her upbringing and beliefs.
00:18:09 - Nuances of Modesty and Purity Culture
Shannan and Lori talk about the different nuances of modesty and purity culture within different cultures and religions, highlighting the complexity of the topic even within the United States.
00:20:32 - The Larger Narrative of Shannan's Music
Shannan shares that "Enough" is a powerful anthem within her music, aimed at inspiring and empowering listeners. She also discusses her other upcoming songs, each with a specific theme and emotional impact.
00:24:43 - Musical Influences on Shannan's Style
Shannan talks about her vocal similarities to Carrie Jo and her love for Celine Dion and rock bands like Maroon 5 and Coldplay, which have influenced her music and style.
00:26:44 - Teaser of "Enough" and Closing Remarks
Shannan gives a teaser of the song "Enough" and Lori expresses her gratitude for Shannan's impactful music and the transformational journey that has shaped her as an artist.
00:31:32 - Embracing Uniqueness
Lori emphasizes the importance of embracing our uniqueness and bringing our true selves to the world. She highlights the uniqueness of individuals, including her own twins, and encourages listeners to recognize their own value and contribution.
00:32:23 - Shannon's Music and Message
Lori discusses Shannon's upcoming song release and the empowering message it carries. She encourages listeners to be among the first to access the song and share it with others, emphasizing Shannon's authenticity and the impact of her lyrics.
00:33:20 - Amplifying Shannon's Voice
Lori expresses her excitement for releasing Shannon's music and amplifying her voice. She emphasizes Shannon's deep thinking, caring nature, and the inspiration her music provides, encouraging listeners to add Shannon to their playlists.
00:34:27 - You Are Enough
Lori reiterates the message of worthiness and human dignity, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and respect for others. She encourages listeners to embrace their uniqueness and make a positive difference in the world by being themselves.
00:35:35 - Keep Being You
Lori concludes by reinforcing the significance of being true to oneself and making a difference simply by being authentic. She encourages listeners to continue embracing their uniqueness and contributing positively to the world.
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Welcome to the A World of Difference
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podcast. I'm Lori Adams Brown and this is
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a podcast for those who are different and
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want to make a difference. Today we have a
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musician on the show, a singer songwriter
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and a friend of mine, Shannan Copland is
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coming on the show. She's been releasing
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some new music lately and she is about to
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release a new song called Enough on April
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12. She's coming on the show today to talk
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about the this song, other songs she's
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going to be releasing out in the future
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and ones she's already released. Copland
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is an indie pop music artist based in
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Portland Oregon Born and raised here in
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California where I live she studied music
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at an early age with a love for piano and
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voice she involved herself in any musical
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opportunity that was afforded to her Her
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passion for songwriting ignited around age
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twelve and she's used it as an outlet to
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express her artistry ever since Over the
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years Shannon has worked with talented
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musicians vocalists and teachers from
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around the United States also in Portugal
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Norway Italy and more And she had the
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honor of being the only vocal student of
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norwegian pop celebrity train train and to
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this day train has been one of her most
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inspiring and influential mentors.Shannon
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single it's like in March this year and
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once again a new one coming called Enough
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on April 12 which she has graciously
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allowed me to have a preview too And her
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song it's like that was released in March
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with a catchy a that might take you back
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to I don't know the breakfast club for a
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second But her new one enough is about
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enough.And it's just absolutely the
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message we want to amplify out to the
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world here on the oh world of difference
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podcast that you bring your voice to the
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table fully the who you are And this song
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is all about that So excited to welcome to
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the show to Shannan Copland.Hello Shannon
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It's so great to see you my friend up in
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Portland Welcome A very very warm welcome
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to the A world of difference podcast
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today.Thank you so much It's Thank
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privilege to get to be On this podcast
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with you Well it's so fun for me when I
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get to interview friends that I've known
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for years We met here in the Bay area but
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now you're up in Portland and we've
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visited each other.I've visited you with
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my family up there too which is so fun But
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today we're going to talk about you and I
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get to interview you, and learn all about
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the difference you're making in the world
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And I'm so excited to do that And my first
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sort of question for you right off the bat
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which I know but I'd love for my listeners
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are the places and cultures that have
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shaped you throughout your life That have
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made Shannon who your are Oh my gosh That
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is a loaded question Oh man.Well Shannon
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me Well I've been I've lived a lot of
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places like you have I grew up in the Bay
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years and beginning of our marriage for a
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really good chunk of time we lived a We
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Canada and a lot of different places And
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my and a I really love traveling.I love
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traveling all my life And we love the
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perspective that we get from immersing
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ourselves in the cultures And learning
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their worldviews and heLoring people's
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really challenges our own thinking of what
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we think of ourselves and how we can
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achieve things too And so yeah we love
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traveling.So I've been a lot of places Yes
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you've lived a lot of cool places and
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traveled a lot of cool places I mean Italy
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is on a lot of people's destination of
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favorite places they've been or bucket
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list of places they want to go.Yeah
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exactly And you're a woman yourself and
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that Has really played into your music
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processing that through your lyrics which
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is so beautiful And I just kind of wanted
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to.Know because I know people listening
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whether They'Re a woman or a girl or A man
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expectations Did that ever play into your
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story of kind of trying to meet up to the
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expectations people had of you And sort of
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what did you struggle with around that Oh
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absolutely Yeah I grew up in a strong
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religious evangelical background and there
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are a lot of expectations a are put on us
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the workplace or your family or your
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school.But for me there were I had parents
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family a what we're doing And is
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everything that we do does that measure up
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to what this christian Or this person is
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supposed to be And there's a lot of
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pressure with that and it's hard
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especially when you're In your adolescent
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years and you're trying to figure out who
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you are and what your purpose is when
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you're being thrown all these different
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expectations And yeah it's hard to sort
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through that so It is Yeah.Lot to be said
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with that No my gosh there's like we could
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do a whole entire series on that. itself
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from a christian background or from a
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muslim background or a jewish background
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environments a religious environment there
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a a lot of rules and expectations and we
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do have people listening that are in the
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evangelical community here in the US or
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abroad or listening the ex vangelical
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community as well And so some of those
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rules just feel kind of arbitrary Like
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where did they even get that And why are
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there so many And why are there more now
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than there were last year And you never
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feel like you quite measure up right It's
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like okay why does the goalpost keep
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moving You know But as a As a mom Yeah as
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a mom raising daughters like ooh the world
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is hard on women and girls We just
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finished women's history month and I don't
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know why we just get one month I mean we
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should at least get sex right now or like
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rbg.When they asked her about how many
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supreme court justices would we have in
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order for us to know we've reached
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equality And she's like when there are in
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right Because it's been tipped the other
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way for so long But as are mom you're
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really thinking of your daughters right as
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you're writing a lot of your music And so
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I guess like you know.What hope do you a
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for your potential You know future
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granddaughters or great granddaughters As
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they you know hear your lyrics What are
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you hoping they will come Out of it with
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Yeah I just As I was writing this song it
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started actually in a completely different
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direction I was just writing down the
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lyrics thinking through some things that
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were coming to my mind And it started more
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off as like A lament of reflection of the
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past.And just feeling bound by
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expectations and rules But But a lot of
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that is perspective too right Like how
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much of the rules that I believed in were
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actually put on me as opposed to what I
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believed.Was being put on me And so anyway
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the song was a Little bit kind of
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complaining reflective and I was like wait
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a second if I'm experiencing this I know
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so many other people are experiencing this
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too.And I know my girls will experience
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this So instead of complaining about it
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and lamenting about it I want to make This
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song something that they can do something
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with Like what do I want my girl singing
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When it comes to the pressures of.Feeling
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like you're enough or that you Are worth
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it and that you measure up And so that's
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really what birthed this song is The
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lyrics The chorus just really drives it
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home.And it repeats because we kind of
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need that We need that repetition feeding
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back into our soul like you're enough The
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world may think otherwise of you but it
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doesn't matter Their opinions do not
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change our worth And to stand in that
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worth.And so that's really that's really
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what I want my girls to be singing back
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It's like I am enough I am enough So good
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I mean there's what. least in the.US
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context I've seen some pretty interesting
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Research on what is shameful to men Versus
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women boys versus girls Actually Brene
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Brown does a lot of research around She's
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a shame researcher and talks shameful lot
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about vulnerability and you know typically
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very stereotypically and this is not
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everyone but generally speaking you have
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messages toward men a boys that the worst
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thing that could be the most shameful
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thing they could be is weak versus
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strong.And then for men and girls it's
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Often that you're not perfect You didn't
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follow every rule and do It every whatever
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your subculture looks like You know if
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you're in school it's education and if
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it's like you're in.A religious
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environment it's the religion and The
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rules of the religion Like you know how do
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you dress You know purity culture
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obviously plays a lot into this with
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Christianity but also with Islam and even
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with Judaism a bit And so you know as we
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think.About this and a makes that shame of
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not being perfect is something that Really
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we have to work as women And girls and we
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also need male allies to help us with this
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too Strong fathers that raise strong
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daughters and you know it's okay to fail
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and it's okay to make mistakes Did any of
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this help you find your own voice in the
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process And how does getting comfortable
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with your Own voice help you make
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mistakes. difference in this way Oh
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absolutely I think understanding that your
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value is not based on external things like
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someone's Opinions or the world's
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expectations.When you understand that
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you're worth it and that you are valuable
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then you like for me I felt liberated Like
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when I really like believe that Within my
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heart that okay my worth isn't depend on
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their opinions Forget them Like you feel
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liberated even to have weaknesses because
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those weaknesses aren't what define you
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either.And so that's just the profoundness
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of it And when you feel liberated to make
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Mistakes and to just be who you Are and to
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stand in that then you feel more liberated
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to make a difference in the world around
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you you just You have more happiness at
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least for me.I just have a lot more
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happiness Knowing that my worth isn't ping
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ponged By if I'm perfect enough or if I'm
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prettier enough or if I'm good enough at
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this or a Yeah Well I think in the music
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industry we've seen you know we've watched
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women rise.You know we recently have
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Beyonce coming out and changing the music
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industry around country music with cowboy
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Carter and we also saw a lot of the
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scrutiny around Taylor Swift once she
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started her rise toward becoming and
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billionaire Like the And you know both of
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those women and others in the music
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industry have really highlighted how women
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and girls do get scrutinized in toward
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different a because Of the. narratives
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were told and the Way the system has
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worked for so long and really silenced
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women in certain ways or tried to make
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them small.And I know art is one of The
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most beautiful ways to express those
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feelings in its vLorious forms music
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included But to write something so
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vulnerable and so difficult has a lot of
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internal and external barriers that you
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have to overcome As a singer songwriter
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what are some of the barriers that you've
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had to Overcome to write these songs Oh so
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many Like I have to feed this song Back to
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myself a Like almost every time I make a
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post on social media we're always
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wondering you know like oh is this picture
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I that to stupid Or is this caption okay
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okay I'm gonna run it through jet a GPT
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and figure out a better way to say this Or
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are my hashtags right Or like there are
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just so many Things that are fed to us
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constantly where I don't Don't know if
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you're.If you're good enough or not And so
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I constantly have to feed This song back
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to myself and be like okay don't worry
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about it Their opinions don't matter to
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see who You are because this is who I.Am
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and it's not going to change So just live
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your authentic self and forget the image
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management Yeah So yeah so good And I
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think that we long in.Our generation maybe
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even more so because of how much image
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management is out there both in religious
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contexts as well as you know government
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and business and Even the music industry
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or you know just your average you know
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1213 year old girl looking at Snapchat or
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whatever And in herself to every other
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girl In the world not just her class You
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know there was a time when I was growing
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up in the eighties.And nineties where you
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just compared yourself To the 15 other
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kids in your class you know which in
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Venezuela was a high bar I'm just going to
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say one of my classmates it was Miss
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Venezuela and she's gorgeous you know but
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yeah but now it's just it's so much
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pressure And we're seeing major a health
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issues that are causing all of us concern
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Right.Because of it But you know when we
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think about The different cultures of the
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world the standards of beauty or the rules
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for women and girls are different in every
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culture So was there anything about your
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experience abroad maybe in Italy or
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anywhere else that sort of shed a light
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for you and relativized some of this as
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you were finding your own voice and kind
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of figuring out how your own Light was
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going to shine Oh there were some moments
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when we lived in Italy where I definitely
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had a few aha Moments that were they shed
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light on the perspective and the beliefs
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of how I was raised and how I grew up and
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they kind of changed the Way I think about
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them now So for example growing up they
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way that I did the topic of modesty is
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very different.And in Italy there is a
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different Kind of I don't know this is how
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I experienced it as myself But they view
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modesty differently And in America there's
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extreme pressures of oh cover is up or
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don't cover it up It depends on you know
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where you.Grew up and all that But I guess
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what I'm trying to Say is modesty is one
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of there's One of the perspectives that
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changed And I saw women who were
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confident.In themselves and not shamed not
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body Shamed like we we tend to do And that
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was really special to me because.I don't
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know physical appearance is Something that
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is that the forefront I think a lot of
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times of beliefs About yourself and
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measuring up and things because it's
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external and it's what people see And so
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feeling in Italy like with That change of
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perspective oh you know at It really kind
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of doesn't matter as much as I think it
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does People really don't care as much as
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we think they do about how much Skin
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you're showing or how much skin you're not
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showing it really doesn't affect People
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kind the same way Your culture also the
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way you're brought up with your culture
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makes a difference in that also.So that's
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one example No it's great I think that's a
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common example because When it comes to
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things like modesty Or we mentioned
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earlier purity culture that some people
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were raised in which you.Know is a a
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conversation in the Evangelical community
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or evangelical community here in the
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United States it also has because. lot of
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different nuance even in the US depending
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mentioned whether you're white evangelical
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Or black evangelical or latino or asian
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American all those different communities
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view that differently.And then you know I
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think for Both of us our experiences are
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on The world of what it meant to be modest
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Generally speaking in that country or with
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the subcultures of the different religions
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I probably couldn't have lived in more
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extreme places I grew up think Venezuela
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which is very like even the christian
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community I grew up in like they were
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being modest for.And I use the or modesty
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about clothing Modesty also you know and
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certain nuances Of the word could be how
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much you flaunt your money So that's
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another element that's also not always
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brought into it and seems to be more of
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the origins at least in terms of how the
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scriptures and kind of impact that But
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like the I lived under shLoria law in
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Sumatra where I had to wear a hijab and
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couldn't have nail polish.And you know all
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of that is wild You know there was no even
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physical contact between men and women You
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know if you had to greet someone as sharia
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woman you could shake Her hand but as a
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man to a woman's you know you often
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wouldn't even touch hands And even with my
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own husband in public right So what's
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considered modest even within certain
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religions has nuance even within Islam or
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a Judaism all over the world And so it
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makes that moving a if you moving
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countries extremely difficult because like
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well here it's not like that And like
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you're showing your hair here and you're
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not showing your hair here And so it makes
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so much It can be kind of victim blaming
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for women.Like well you were asking for it
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if you did this type of thing And so all
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the more reason we Need songs we need
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songwriters like you We need artists to
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help us express these deep feelings that
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have been embodied for so many women. and
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girls where you can just see women
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carrying it almost physically in
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themselves So as you were writing this you
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know sort of just.You described a little
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bit of your process for writing the song
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enough But I know you have other so That
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have recently come out It's like in other
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ones And so how does enough fit into.The
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larger narrative or themes of you music in
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general I think enough is one of the Main
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anthems of my music.I love encouraging
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people I love inspiring them I love it
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when people achieve their goals and they
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try really hard for something But I also
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am a really deep thinker Can sometimes be
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an in but I a deep thinker.I really like
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reflection and self reflection And so a
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lot of my songs are along those themes of
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it I just want my listeners to be inspired
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encouraged or to really challenge their
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Thinking on a topics or maybe present A
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perspective of a particular topic they may
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not have thought about.So I have a few
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songs coming out that are I'm really
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excited about One of them has a really fun
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beat I'm gonna release that in the
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summertime And there are other on that are
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super reflective like for mother's Day I'm
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gonna be releasing.Sing may song around
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then and it will probably a most moms
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coming a puddle of tears Okay get your
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kleenexes ready everybody As I wrote that
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one I'm couldn't Oh my gosh I couldn't
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stop crying.And I just actually got it
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back from my producer yesterday and I'm
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was just releasing. tears a I let my
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daughter my older daughter listen to it
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and she was in tears. too and so touching
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So um So a lot of emotional songs coming
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Too but enough is for me it's The one that
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I'm most proud of.Right now because it's
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It's kind of like that in anthem Like I
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want There aren't a lot of songs out there
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that That kind of feed into your so
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necessLorily that are.That are empowering
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that are encouraging And I want people to
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after they hear this song just to feel
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liberated And feel that they're worthy and
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that They can just go out and face
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Whatever challenges they have a in their
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own skin and be confident kind that.No
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it's so true I agree I got to this point
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in my life after having worked in a toxic
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work environment and sort of walking
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through that in therapy over they're last
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three years or so That year I have
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playlists on Spotify One's called hype
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woman ones like women's empowerment.I mean
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it's in of like I Just sometimes on my
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commute to work Here point Silicon Valley
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it's like I Just need to remind myself
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that you know I'm enough Women around me
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are enough and women.Supporting women is
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one of my favorite things And I on know I
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just I heard recently Michelle Obama has
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There was this video where she was Talking
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about um women and just the.Sisterhood and
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she's like we don't have room for mean
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girls Like we don't have the luxury of
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TeLoring each other down because so much
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tears women and girls down We We need to
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support one another.And I so grateful in
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my network Of women that so many of them
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Support each other both in the podcasting
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industry and professionally and business
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and tech Where I work and you know other
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Ways I find it such a fulfilling space
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because the world does want to tear us
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down.And so songs like that are so
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important So if you're getting added to my
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hype woman playlist just.That's right Just
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fair warning it's each explicit playlist
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There are some songs in there that will
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raise your eyebrows and maybe aren't for
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the little ones but that's right Some a
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you just need it to be you know tear
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little more explicit and it's just me in
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the car so you know we're good But I would
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love to know are there specific musicians
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or artists a have influenced your style or
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your approach to songwriting particularly
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You know for this song Enough I wouldn't
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necessLorily say for this particular song
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that I That I wasn't trying to shape it
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After any particular artist style but
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I.Would say that my My sound in general in
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the past people have said that like
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vocally I Have similLorities to Carrie Jo
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and she has She has a very soft voice but
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there's just that it packs a punch in her
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choruses and stuff And song that lot of my
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songs have big choruses and have any lot
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of soft elements just like her.I love her
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She's She's great but also different
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powerful emphasis moments like Celine Dion
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I can't even sing like her but I love her
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She amazing.She a some really fun songs
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and she's lived it packs a legacy so I
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look up to her a lot So yeah they're
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Celine Dion and then I have a rock side
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soft elements that I really love And this
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song enough has more of a pop rock vibe It
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00:25:33,232 --> 00:25:36,736
has more of like a really driving beat to
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it that really helps emphasize the message
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I think.And maybe that probably comes from
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how much I listen to maroon five and
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Coldplay and other artists like them So
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I'm a huge Coldplay fan But a I love it
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Now that you're mentioning all those I
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hear those in your music a I'm excited to
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have been able to be one of the people
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that got in advance listen to this song
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00:26:05,076 --> 00:26:08,964
enough which was just beautiful.I sat on
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the couch and heard It and I was just like
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00:26:13,904 --> 00:26:17,332
feeling It and just so grateful that you
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00:26:17,332 --> 00:26:22,856
wrote this I think it's going to really
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speak to a lot of people So if you don't
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mind could we have a little bit of able
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play Sure Let's see if this works I'll
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give you all a quick little teaser and
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I'll start in here Fear will pull you down
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and fear will mute yourself don't let it
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make you believe who you are is not enough
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down.Love it brings tears to my eyes just
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a we've known each other oh yeah that's
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true It's a great song for the treadmill a
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I'll add it to my workout playlist too
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Well as we're finishing up here thank you
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for this in been amazing I know you
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probably have listeners and fans like in
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Italy Do you want to say anything to them
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or anyone else listening in any language
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whatever your choice.There's an airplay
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00:27:44,740 --> 00:27:47,932
App for team mobile.Yeah you guys my
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00:27:47,932 --> 00:27:49,664
italian friends they can listen to my
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00:27:49,664 --> 00:27:53,044
songs also through The Tin mobile app but
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00:27:53,044 --> 00:27:58,140
there's also Spotify and I know they use
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00:27:58,140 --> 00:28:00,716
that too So yeah Excited for this song to
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00:28:00,716 --> 00:28:03,788
be out in the world and everybody share it
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00:28:03,788 --> 00:28:05,964
with all the people you know so we can get
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00:28:05,964 --> 00:28:08,604
this out there.Yeah Let people know how
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00:28:08,604 --> 00:28:29,834
they can share It and how they can find
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00:28:29,834 --> 00:28:33,058
you Oh yeah So I have a website.It's
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00:28:33,058 --> 00:28:35,914
Shannan Copland.com But you can also find
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00:28:35,914 --> 00:28:38,562
me on Instagram and all the different
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00:28:38,562 --> 00:28:39,490
social platforms at Shannon Coplinmusic
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And pay attention to the spelling because
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00:28:43,170 --> 00:28:43,946
my mom decided to write my name
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differently Shannan And enough comes out
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00:28:45,282 --> 00:28:47,794
on April 12 That's when it gets released
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00:28:47,794 --> 00:28:50,170
and goes live But for anyone who signs up
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00:28:50,170 --> 00:28:51,298
through my website for my newsletter they
580
00:28:51,298 --> 00:28:55,202
get to get yeah. sneak peek and listen to
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00:28:55,202 --> 00:28:58,754
it Shannon lot sooner So if anyone wants
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00:28:58,754 --> 00:29:02,074
to hear it sooner they can sign up and
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00:29:02,074 --> 00:29:06,042
I'll Get it to them sooner Thank you.Yes
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And it's a birthday present for me because
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00:29:09,540 --> 00:29:18,036
April 12 is my birthday so But I got my
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00:29:18,036 --> 00:29:20,764
birthday present early from you so I got
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00:29:20,764 --> 00:29:23,076
an advance sneak peek on the song Well
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00:29:23,076 --> 00:29:25,564
thank you so much for being on the show
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00:29:25,564 --> 00:29:27,212
for making such a difference and bringing
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00:29:27,212 --> 00:29:29,796
your beautiful differences of songwriting
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00:29:29,796 --> 00:29:31,468
and your experiences that have formed Who
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00:29:31,468 --> 00:29:34,434
you are to make a difference for so
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00:29:34,434 --> 00:29:37,550
many.And I know that it's also been
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00:29:37,550 --> 00:29:38,598
birthday transformational journey for you
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00:29:38,598 --> 00:29:40,974
And I think that's the best way to make a
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00:29:40,974 --> 00:29:44,782
difference in the world is to bring our
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00:29:44,782 --> 00:29:47,246
own narratives and our own story Like you
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00:29:47,246 --> 00:29:49,102
said there's so much pressure to fit into
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00:29:49,102 --> 00:29:53,966
a box that we a you to be your And just
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00:29:53,966 --> 00:29:58,246
the transformation you've gone through to
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00:29:58,246 --> 00:30:01,474
be yourself it speaks volumes And I just
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00:30:01,474 --> 00:30:03,838
appreciate you both as.A friend and as an
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00:30:03,838 --> 00:30:06,182
artist that I'm enjoying your music and
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00:30:06,182 --> 00:30:08,406
all the things So thank you so much
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00:30:08,406 --> 00:30:09,694
Shannon for being on today Thank you Lori
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00:30:09,694 --> 00:30:12,470
Thank you so much So we're going to have
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00:30:12,470 --> 00:30:14,422
you hang out again for our Patreon
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00:30:14,422 --> 00:30:15,718
difference maker community where we'll go
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00:30:15,718 --> 00:30:17,990
a little bit.Deeper with you there but we
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00:30:17,990 --> 00:30:20,262
will Say goodbye to everyone Bye to
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00:30:20,262 --> 00:30:23,862
everyone in Italy Ciao and thank you for
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00:30:23,862 --> 00:30:25,046
listening Thanks everyone.Well did you
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00:30:25,046 --> 00:30:27,062
feel the vibe that Was coming across that
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00:30:27,062 --> 00:30:29,246
I felt as we were recording this I hope
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00:30:29,246 --> 00:30:30,974
that you did Shannon is just Thank very
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authentic vulnerable Person who is fully
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embracing who she.Is at this stage of her
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life And asking us to consider doing the
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Same for ourselves for everyone else
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around us so that we can bring our
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differences fully to the table and speak
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00:30:44,934 --> 00:30:51,354
with our own voices And even if we you
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00:30:51,354 --> 00:30:55,606
know fumble Through it I know one of RBG's
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00:30:55,606 --> 00:30:57,886
great quotes that she left behind for all
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00:30:57,886 --> 00:31:02,028
of us is to just you know a even when our
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00:31:02,028 --> 00:31:06,256
voice shakes.You know we may not get it
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00:31:06,256 --> 00:31:09,000
right We may make mistakes along the way
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00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:13,056
It doesn't have to be perfect But as we
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00:31:13,056 --> 00:31:15,960
bring ourselves to the world we are can
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00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,168
very unique person And there's only one of
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00:31:19,168 --> 00:31:23,296
us.I'm a mom of twins They were born six
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00:31:23,296 --> 00:31:24,808
minutes apart And they are exact opposites
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00:31:24,808 --> 00:31:28,296
in so many ways Born in the same family
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00:31:28,296 --> 00:31:30,288
same languages same country same culture
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00:31:30,288 --> 00:31:31,816
same family You are unique.Even if you
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00:31:31,816 --> 00:31:33,596
have shakes. twin You are special
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00:31:33,596 --> 00:31:35,188
different and bring something To the table
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00:31:35,188 --> 00:31:37,284
that we want to hear And that is what
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00:31:37,284 --> 00:31:40,564
Shannon is trying To remind us of her song
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00:31:40,564 --> 00:31:44,356
enough is a wait for you to listen to it
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00:31:44,356 --> 00:31:46,492
Go on to Spotify or wherever you get your
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00:31:46,492 --> 00:31:49,420
music and be one of they first to get
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00:31:49,420 --> 00:31:52,764
access to this song today On April 12 On
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00:31:52,764 --> 00:31:55,916
April 10 as this is releasing But it will
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00:31:55,916 --> 00:31:58,316
fully release into the world on April 12
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00:31:58,316 --> 00:32:01,612
But you could sign up for it early so you
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00:32:01,612 --> 00:32:04,890
can be one of the first to get it Share it
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00:32:04,890 --> 00:32:06,810
with your friends This is a song, that
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00:32:06,810 --> 00:32:08,930
really embodies all of the things that we
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00:32:08,930 --> 00:32:12,386
see in Shannon's life as she shows us What
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00:32:12,386 --> 00:32:14,994
that looks like and lives it Out herself
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00:32:14,994 --> 00:32:17,174
and really thought about her.Girls as she
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00:32:17,174 --> 00:32:20,530
was writing it And whether you're a girl a
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00:32:20,530 --> 00:32:22,442
woman releasing. boy a man whoever you are
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00:32:22,442 --> 00:32:23,818
whatever language you speak if English is
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00:32:23,818 --> 00:32:25,042
your second language and you're Italian
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00:32:25,042 --> 00:32:26,266
and you one of those and her community of
658
00:32:26,266 --> 00:32:28,770
listeners out there who speak Italian and
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00:32:28,770 --> 00:32:32,726
are cheering her song all the Way from
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00:32:32,726 --> 00:32:35,174
Italy are her friends in Portugal or
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00:32:35,174 --> 00:32:37,390
Norway or wherever you are listening to
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00:32:37,390 --> 00:32:40,630
this up in and where you're keeping it
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00:32:40,630 --> 00:32:43,046
weird wherever you are I hope that this
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00:32:43,046 --> 00:32:45,990
message has been an inspiring one for you
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00:32:45,990 --> 00:32:49,014
a from a own voice speaking to you and
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00:32:49,014 --> 00:32:50,846
getting to hear speak, little bit of that
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00:32:50,846 --> 00:32:52,662
song she's releasing out into the world in
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00:32:52,662 --> 00:32:55,750
just a couple of days on Friday April 12
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00:32:55,750 --> 00:32:57,350
my birthday.Such Italian special treat for
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00:32:57,350 --> 00:32:59,866
me to Be able to release this and
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00:32:59,866 --> 00:33:01,874
celebrate her and amplify her voice out
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00:33:01,874 --> 00:33:04,706
into The world as a way to let You know
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00:33:04,706 --> 00:33:08,370
that she's a voice you want to listen to
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and that she Is putting heart and soul
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00:33:10,170 --> 00:33:13,226
into her lyrics and that you're going to
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00:33:13,226 --> 00:33:14,250
hear some other things she's releasing out
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00:33:14,250 --> 00:33:16,546
on Mother's Day out a fun song in the
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00:33:16,546 --> 00:33:18,218
summer.And just as she's a deep thinker
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00:33:18,218 --> 00:33:21,770
and I can attest to that and somebody who
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00:33:21,770 --> 00:33:23,346
cares deeply as well you want voices like
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00:33:23,346 --> 00:33:27,498
Shannon's in your ear and your earbuds and
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00:33:27,498 --> 00:33:29,850
your headphones and on your car a or
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00:33:29,850 --> 00:33:32,114
wherever you're listening to this on a
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00:33:32,114 --> 00:33:33,834
train somewhere on a subway riding your
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00:33:33,834 --> 00:33:36,074
bike somewhere doing the dishes at home
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00:33:36,074 --> 00:33:39,498
whatever it is that your situation is
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00:33:39,498 --> 00:33:41,466
right now as you're heLoring this podcast
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00:33:41,466 --> 00:33:44,138
you want to put Shannon on your playlist
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00:33:44,138 --> 00:33:46,594
because she's the kind of person that will
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00:33:46,594 --> 00:33:48,874
continue to inspire you to be yourself And
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00:33:48,874 --> 00:33:52,040
we need more of those voices speaking that
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00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:55,040
into our lives don't we To remind us an
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00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,520
anthem that your are enough No matter what
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00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,528
has happened before this Moment you are
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00:33:59,528 --> 00:34:02,896
enough.And you are worthy and you deserve
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00:34:02,896 --> 00:34:05,564
human dignity and respect And I hope at
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00:34:05,564 --> 00:34:08,960
you're also showing That to others and
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that this song will inspire you to do so
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00:34:11,752 --> 00:34:13,992
as all of you are out there making a
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00:34:13,992 --> 00:34:15,120
difference kind the world and bringing
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00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:16,856
your differences to the table Shannon is
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00:34:16,856 --> 00:34:18,312
making such a difference and She is
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00:34:18,312 --> 00:34:20,096
speaking friend of many around.The world
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00:34:20,096 --> 00:34:22,776
who have made a difference in her life and
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00:34:22,776 --> 00:34:25,528
that she's made what difference in their
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lives And she certainly made a difference
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in mine My friend Shannon so glad to bring
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Her voice to this podcast today So once
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again follow her share her music with
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others and share this so for those who
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need to be inspired.And to remember that
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you are enough wherever you are And I just
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continue to share this message with you
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because I know a the world is against us
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wants to bring our voices down and wants
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to crush us or make us small or put us in
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a box like if you saw the Barbie movie
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where these little handcuffs start to
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appear around her hands and they start to
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trap her, in this box And I don't want any
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of us to do that to each other or to allow
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others to do that to us So it's very
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liberating when you just own your own
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voice and let your light shine and bring
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your uniqueness into the world And it
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makes our world a better place.There's
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only one you and we want You to keep being
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you And so yeah that's Barbie way you Can
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make handcuffs difference It's just by
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being yourself.So keep making start
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