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Dec. 20, 2023

Leslie Leyland Fields on Creating Radiant Moments: Discovering Light in the Advent Season and Love in the Christmas Holidays

Leslie Leyland Fields on Creating Radiant Moments: Discovering Light in the Advent Season and Love in the Christmas Holidays

Does the holiday season often leave you feeling overwhelmed and disconnected? Despite being told to simply keep busy and distracted, you still find yourself longing for a deeper sense of joy and connection. The constant hustle and bustle only leave you feeling exhausted and unfulfilled, longing for more meaningful experiences. It's time to explore a new approach that will bring you the peace and connection you've been craving.


My special guest is Leslie Leyland Fields


Leslie Leyland Fields is an internationally renowned teacher, speaker, and award-winning author of 14 books, including "Your Story Matters," "The Wonder Years," and "Crossing the Waters," which earned a Christianity Today Book award in Christian Living. With three graduate degrees in English, journalism, and an MFA in creative nonfiction, Leslie has extensive experience as a founding faculty member of Seattle Pacific University's MFA program. Her books have been translated into nine languages, and her essays have appeared in various publications, earning her several evangelical press awards. Leslie's latest work, "Radiant Birth: Advent Readings for a Bright Season," offers an engaging and unique perspective on the Advent season, making her a valuable guest for today's episode.

We make a difference better together. So let's create meaningful holiday traditions that increase joy and connection during the advent season. - Leslie Leyland Fields


In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Explore the profound insights of "Radiant Birth" for a deeper understanding of Christmas.
  • Embrace the power of stillness to find inner peace and presence during the Advent season.
  • Discover the significance of sharing personal stories for deeper connections and understanding.
  • Spread love and kindness beyond your family circle for a more inclusive and compassionate holiday season.
  • Find hope and resilience by seeking out light even in the most challenging times.


The significance of sharing extends beyond mere giving and receiving during the holiday season. As evidenced by Leslie's vision for her grandchildren's generation, sharing should be about expressing love, not just within family units, but extended to the larger communities. Sharing our stories, experiences, and acts of love can act as a beacon of light in a world needing hope and unity.


Exploring profound insights is a powerful way to understand the enigma of Advent. This can involve delving into the historical, personal, and global impacts of Jesus' birth, as Leslie Leyland Fields discusses in her book, Radiant Birth. Reading such works in the quiet of the dark winter months can bring a brighter perspective and provide refreshing light to our spirits.


Embracing the power of stillness allows each of us to discover and authentically experience the transformative Advent season. As Leslie suggests, even few moments of quietness each day, reading a thought-provoking book or poem, can create a space for connection with God and oneself, combating holiday overwhelm. Cultivating such moments of stillness can nourish our minds and hearts and help us establish meaningful holiday traditions with our families.

The resources mentioned in this episode are:

  • Visit Leslie Leyland Fields' website at www.leslieleylandfields.com to explore her books, writings, and other resources related to writing and storytelling.
  • Join the Difference Maker community on Patreon at www.patreon.com/aworldofdifference to access exclusive episodes, including one with Leslie, and vote on upcoming topics for the podcast. Join for as little as $5/month (cancel any time.)
  • Purchase Leslie Leyland Fields' book Radiant Birth: Advent Readings for a Bright Season to experience the collection of literary readings, poems, and stories that bring light and radiance to the Advent season.
  • Consider signing up for Leslie Leyland Fields' writing course or coaching services to receive guidance and support in telling your own story and bringing it to life through writing.
  • Follow Leslie on Instagram.

The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:02 - Navigating Difficult Emotions during the Holidays


00:04:34 - Writing Process and Book Selection


00:08:22 - Embracing the Mystery of Advent


00:11:39 - Impact of the Advent Book


00:17:23 - Embracing the Radiance of God's Love


00:17:53 - Overcoming Burnout in Church Culture


00:21:20 - Importance of Stillness and Self-Care


00:23:26 - Empowering People to Tell Their Stories


00:29:22 - Getting Started with Writing


00:31:13 - Meaningful Christmas Traditions


00:34:23 - Reflecting on Family Traditions and Love


00:35:44 - Intentional Tradition-Making


00:37:13 - Love Spreading Beyond Families


00:38:24 - Connecting with Leslie


Join international teacher and author Leslie Leyland Fields as she ignites a new tradition of finding light and love beyond our families this holiday season, inspiring us to create meaningful connections and joy amid darkness and challenges.


Timestamped summary of this episode:

00:00:02 - Navigating Difficult Emotions during the Holidays

Lori acknowledges that the holidays can be a difficult time for those who have experienced loss, trauma, or abuse. She shares her personal experience of loss on December 26 and encourages listeners to seek help if needed.


00:04:34 - Writing Process and Book Selection

Leslie discusses the process of selecting literary readings, including poems and stories, for the advent book. The book is divided into three sections - Jesus Born in Bethlehem, Jesus Born in Us, and Jesus in Us for the World.


00:08:22 - Embracing the Mystery of Advent

Leslie explains that the book is not a traditional devotional, but rather a collection of readings that invite readers to experience their own profound moments and encounters with the birth of Jesus. She emphasizes the mystery and beauty of God taking on human flesh.


00:11:39 - Impact of the Advent Book

Leslie shares her hope that readers will engage with the book daily, immersing themselves in the radiance and wonder of the season. She encourages readers to use the book as a tool for reflection and meditation, allowing the radiance of Advent to become a part of them beyond the immediate season.


00:17:23 - Embracing the Radiance of God's Love

Leslie expresses her desire for the radiance of God's love to transcend the Advent season and become a part of readers' daily lives. She emphasizes the beauty of God's love and presence in all things


00:17:53 - Overcoming Burnout in Church Culture

Leslie Leyland Fields discusses the challenges of burnout culture in churches and the importance of finding stillness and quiet in the midst of busyness. She emphasizes the need for individuals to take quiet moments for themselves, especially during the Advent season.


00:21:20 - Importance of Stillness and Self-Care

The conversation shifts to the topic of self-care and finding stillness amidst the busyness of life. Leslie Leyland Fields shares her own experiences as a mother and highlights the significance of taking quiet moments to connect with God's love for us.


00:23:26 - Empowering People to Tell Their Stories

Leslie Leyland Fields discusses her philosophy of writing and her approach to coaching authors. She emphasizes the importance of empowering individuals to see the remarkable stories within them and to silence the voices of self-doubt and fear.


00:29:22 - Getting Started with Writing

Leslie Leyland Fields encourages aspiring writers to start by exploring their inner stories. She recommends her book "Your Story Matters" as a simple and profound guide to help individuals begin the writing process and tap into their unique perspectives.


00:31:13 - Meaningful Christmas Traditions

Leslie Leyland Fields shares her favorite Christmas tradition of having a special Christmas Eve dinner with her family. She describes the unique and intentional meals they share, emphasizing the importance of simple and meaningful traditions that bring families together.


00:34:23 - Reflecting on Family Traditions and Love

Leslie shares her childhood experience of not celebrating Christmas, leading her to intentionally create traditions with her family. She highlights the importance of love for one another and spreading it beyond the family unit.


00:35:44 - Intentional Tradition-Making

Leslie emphasizes the significance of intentional tradition-making, sharing her journey from a non-celebratory childhood to anchoring her family with meaningful traditions. Her vision and hope for the future generation are rooted in the four-letter word, love.


00:37:13 - Love Spreading Beyond Families

Leslie expresses her belief that love is not meant to be insular, but rather to bind families together and then propel them to spread love outward into the world. She finds joy in witnessing her children and grandchildren embody this love within their own families.


00:38:24 - Connecting with Leslie

Leslie invites listeners to visit her website, where they can find her writing and coaching services. She shares her experiences as a commercial fisherman in Alaska and encourages people to connect and say hello.


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Welcome to the a World of Difference

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podcast. I'm Lori Adams Brown, and this is

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a podcast for those who are different and

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want to make a difference. I know that the

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holidays can be a happy time, and it can

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also be a difficult time. And if this time

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of year reminds you of any sort of loss of

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sort of difficulty, you are not alone.

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episode where we have someone who lives

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very close to the North Pole. On the show

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Today we have Leslie Leyland Fields.

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Leslie is an international teacher,

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speaker, and award winning author of 14

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books, including your story matters, the

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Wonder Years, and crossing the Waters,

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which won a Christianity Today Book award

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in christian living. Since 2013, she's

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been leading the Harvester Island Writers

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workshop on her family's island in Alaska

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with guest writers that you may have heard

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of like Anne Voskamp, Philip Yancey, and

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many others that you would know. Leslie's

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other books include surviving the island

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of Grace, forgiving our fathers and

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mothers, and the Spirit of Food, which won

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three best book of 2010 awards. Her books

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have been translated into nine languages

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and her essays have appeared in

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publications including Christianity Today,

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books and culture, belief net,

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theatlantic, Orion, best essays, and many

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more, including earning her a number of

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evangelical press awards. Leslie has three

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graduate degrees in english journalism and

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an MFA in creative nonfiction, and has

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taught extensively, including being a

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founding faculty member of Seattle Pacific

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University's MFA program. She leads faith

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and writing retreats around the world and

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and art of spiritual memoir. She's also

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professional audio narrator, contributing

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regularly to the popular our American

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Stories radio network and audio recording

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books of the Bible for herbible.org. And I

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also just really enjoyed interviewing her

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today about her advent book that if you

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different selections in the book,

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different types of reading from poetry to

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other just writings that relate to advent

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and finding a new way of exploring the

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season through her latest book. And really

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happy to have her on the show today

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talking not only about life in Alaska and

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writing and world travels, but also just

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to hear her experience about what

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Christmas means to her. I know many of you

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around the world have different ways of

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celebrating Christmas, different

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traditions that mean different things to

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you and how you celebrate. But we have her

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on the show today talking about her latest

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advent book, radiant birth. Advent

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readings for a bright season. So a very

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warm welcome from a very cold place to our

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friend Leslie Leyland Fields. Hi Leslie,

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it's so great to have you on the world of

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difference podcast today, all the way from

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Alaska. Thank you for having me. And is

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the sun shining down there in California?

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We are having a sunshiny day. We have a

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lot of those here in the Bay area, I must

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say. How about you? Well, we have snow and

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snow is beautiful and we have clouds. The

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only thing if I could wish, I'd wish for a

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little more sun, but it's a good day. I'm

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sure it is. How many hours of sunshine do

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you get in December this time of year? It

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is of course our darkest month. And we get

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six or 7 hours of light. So not bad. I'm

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in southern Alaska. If you're in northern

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Alaska, you get like zero to one or two. I

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can't imagine it must really lead toward

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people feeling a lot of sadness or even

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some depression at times. Because I think

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you need sunshine to feel happy at some

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level, don't you? Oh, absolutely. It's

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really true. Yeah. There's just a lot of

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struggle through the dark season here up

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north. Yes. Yeah. That's hard. Well, I

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know that probably some of the stuff we're

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going to talk about today is about the

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difference between darkness and light. And

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the things that we can talk about around

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Christmas time, which are pretty

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beautiful. And speaking of beautiful, I

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have the COVID of your book right in front

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of me. And this book is such a beautiful

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cover. A radiant birth, advent readings

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for a bright season. It's such a great

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time of year to think through the advent

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time. We have listeners who practice

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advent all around the world. And some that

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maybe this word is new for them because

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they are different faith backgrounds. But

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I'd love to know what inspired you to

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write this book, this very unique advent

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book. Was there a specific experience or

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moment that sparked your idea for this?

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Know, I'd like to say there was, but no

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other than a friend saying to me, you

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know, Leslie, would you like to do an

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advent book together with me? And this is

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a good friend, Paul Willis, who's my co

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editor here. And we share similar

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sensibilities. And I thought this would be

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a wonderful project. So we joined together

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on this book. I joined him because I

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needed it. I needed the light. I need

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radiance in this dark time of the year.

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a lot of darkness and cold and winter. And

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I needed to remind kind of my heart and my

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soul about a source of light that's more

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than the light in the sky that we only see

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for a few hours a day. Yeah, I love that.

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light and advent. It really carries a deep

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significance for many people. And so you

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selected readings and themes for this

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advent book, but how did you approach

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that? What was your process there? Yeah,

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and our process is there are a lot of

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books out there for advent and for

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Christmas and a lot of them fall into what

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we would call devotionals. And there are

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many beautiful ones. I have a whole shelf

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of them myself. But Paul and I really

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wanted this book to not be another

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devotional. We wanted it to be a

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collection of readings, literary readings,

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of poems and stories and meditations that

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would not tell you what to think or tell

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you how to feel about the season, but

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would instead sort of crack it open so

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that you can feel your own feelings and

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have your own profound moments and

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experiences and encounters with Jesus,

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with the birth of Jesus and all that that

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know into the world. That's beautiful.

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this podcast, a particular segment of

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listeners that have experienced some maybe

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trauma in a religious environment or even

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spiritual abuse, where they've been in

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worship experiences, or even behind closed

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doors with maybe a religious leader or a

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pastor in an office where they felt

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coerced to feel something, or coerced to

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do something. And religion and

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spirituality in the wrong hands can be

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used to coerce. And it is a beautiful

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thing to allow people to discover the

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mystery and put some things out there that

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are even some writings from even church

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fathers and mothers that go way back and

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kind of ground us into a faith tradition

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that's long and beautiful. As you were

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writing this book, did anything in

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particular stand out to you in the writing

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of it, in the selections? That was one of

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your favorites, or just a special one for

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you? Oh, I was afraid you were going to

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ask me that, because I was afraid, because

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I said, how do I choose? I mean, we chose

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all of these readings because each one was

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striking in its own way. They're striking

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individually, and then you put them

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together into this collection, and I've

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just been rereading it myself. So, Lori,

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the process is really interesting. When

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Paul and I were compiling this book, the

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process is that we just go out and read

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and gather as many pieces of beautiful

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writing that we can all around this

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season, which means, of course, we're

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overwhelmed by all of the richness and the

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goodness. But then to start to put it

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together in some kind of pattern or some

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kind of. So what we chose was kind of a

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three part process. And the first section

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of the book is called Jesus Born in

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Bethlehem. And this goes to the historical

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facts of this man, God man, I believe, who

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was born in this little tiny town in the

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Middle east. And it's all around that

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event, Jesus born in Bethlehem. And

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there's some incredible poems that sort of

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open that up. The wonder of this whole

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idea of God, the God of the universe

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taking on human flesh and to come in the

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form of a baby, like the most powerful

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divine being, deciding to become a

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newborn, the most helpless of creatures

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possible. So there's all the wonder and

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mystery and beauty of that in Jesus born

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in Bethlehem. And then the next section is

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Jesus born in us. And that question of,

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okay, so know, baby born into the world,

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how does that change us? How does that

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make a difference in us personally? So

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it's stories and poems that kind of open

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up that. Again, I love your word, mystery,

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that open up that mystery and kind of

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invite us into that experience. What does

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that look like? What does that feel like?

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this is my favorite section, Jesus in us

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for the world. Jesus in us for the world.

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And the idea is, know, God came and took

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on human flesh to be with us, not just for

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our good and our benefit and our peace and

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our joy, but for the sake of the world, so

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that we could be empowered to love others,

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to reach out to others and to bring that

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peace and that love and that radiance,

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that radiance out into the world around

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us. So that's what Paul and I were looking

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for, were pieces that really just cracked

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all of that open so we could experience

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kind of that threefold process, each one

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of us. Beautiful. And I can just hear the

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passion in your voice of what it must have

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been like to read through all those

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readings. I mean, there's no shortage of

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things written on Christmas and advent, is

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there? But you were digging through a lot

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of that and making choices and carefully

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choosing which ones go into your book. How

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do you hope readers will kind of engage

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with your book during this Advent season?

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And what do you sort of aim for? What are

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you hoping it will have as, like, an

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impact on them spiritually? Yeah. The book

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is set up to be a series of readings that

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walk you through day by day, through the

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whole season of Advent, which is about 40

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days. So it's set up so that each day

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there's a reading and it's only a few

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pages. It doesn't have to take a lot of

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time. Many of the poems are just short.

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But what a poem does, it sort of takes you

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from TikTok time, from Kronos time. It

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drops you into Cairo's time, right where

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there is no TikTok. It's sort of, you just

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feel like you're falling into

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timelessness. So people can use the book

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that way, and many people are using it

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that way. Just the daily readings, I am

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not regimented like that. So my favorite

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thing to do, and this is what I'm doing,

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is I just pick it up and I open it up

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until I come to something. Oh, I'm going

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to read this piece Monday, Thursday, or I

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want to read this poem by Jeannie Murray

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Walker. And so I just sort of pick it up

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and turn to the piece that I think that

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maybe I need that very day. So for

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readers, I'm hoping that they will do some

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of both. And I want this journey as we

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divided the book into these three

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sections. And I'm hoping that people will

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kind of follow that movement so that this

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radiance doesn't go away when the calendar

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we tear off December and we tear off

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January. And I want this radiance. I'm

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hoping that it will be birthed inside of

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us and it will go beyond the immediate

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season till it becomes part of us. Just

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the wonder and the mystery and the beauty

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of a God who loves us so much that he

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wanted to be with us in all things,

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everywhere and every time. Yeah. So

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beautiful. And there's also no shortage of

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things that have been written or spoken or

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even, I guess, sung about with Christmas,

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about how we can get so lost in the

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busyness of the season that we forget to

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be still and meditate on what this is all

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about. And it can get quite busy,

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especially for families listening with

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kids. You've got school, Christmas

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parties, and you've got church sometimes

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does so many events, you don't have time

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to breathe. And you're volunteering so

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much in some of the burnout cultures of

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certain churches. And for any people who

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are on a staff at a Church, it's really

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hard to celebrate and take time. But I was

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wondering for you, as you think about

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people reading this book, or maybe for

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yourself personally, are there any

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particular traditions or practices you

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have found helpful? Or may you would

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suggest to readers to enhance their

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experience of advent along with reading

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the book? I think you're so right. That.

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Stillness and that quiet is really hard to

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find. I have several pieces in here. One

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of them is no silent night. And I have six

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children. I raised six children. They're

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all grown. And I have grandchildren now.

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But I remember the Christmas, and I've

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written about that, such a frantic time.

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And I don't think there's joy in that

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busyness. There's joy in that giving to

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others, serving others. There's a lot of

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joy to be had in that, and that's part of

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the blessing of the season. But at the

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same time, if we ourselves are not

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allowing ourselves to just kind of sit in

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the radiance of God's love for us, which

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is not dependent on what we do and is not

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dependent on how much we give and how much

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we serve. God loves us simply for who we

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are. He loves us because he made us. He

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loves us and he came to be with us just

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because he wants to be with us. I think we

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need to just stop. And if we can, each day

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a few moments, that is wonderful and so

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good. I couldn't do that when all six of

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my children were at home. So it's whenever

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I could find that quiet time, it might be

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I was in the car waiting to pick up my

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kids from school, but I would bring a book

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with me and I would just take those five

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minutes, and again, five minutes of that

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quiet five minutes around a beautiful poem

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can suddenly empty. It can suddenly open

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up into what feels like timelessness. And

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just this moment again, of wonder, of

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worship, of gratitude. And that's what

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feeds us and that's what keeps us going.

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So everybody take some quiet moments for

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yourself. Be sure and do that. And I hope

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you'll do that even with this book,

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because it's not going to tell you again

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how to feel. It's just going to break

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through that busyness and that noise. It's

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going to give you a few quiet moments with

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the God who loves you. Yeah. It's so hard.

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It takes a lot of intentionality. My

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therapist told me the past couple of weeks

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we've been working on self care, and I

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live in Silicon Valley, and I'm a mom of

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three teenagers, and I'm a podcast. And

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it's, know, we're busy people. And so she

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has this thing where she's like, I know if

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I give you things that last too long,

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you're probably not going to implement

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them in your life. I'm like, yes, that was

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a good call. But she's like, if you could

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just do this thing and it's just called

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be. And even if you're sitting in your

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office chair, I just want you to sit

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there, even just 10 seconds, and don't

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look at anything, don't read anything.

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Just be like, try to empty any thoughts in

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your head just because your body needs to

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just calm. And I think that I always feel

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like as a mom, ever since. I mean, my

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oldest is now 19, almost 20. I think about

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his first Christmas up until now, and

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Christmas just changed all of a sudden.

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When I had kids, it got busy, it was

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different. And finding the time to be

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still and know that God is God and I'm

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God's child and I'm loved. Those are such

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rare and special moments. And I do find

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that sometimes authors and writers can put

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together words and books like advent

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devotionals or a book like yours or

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radiant birth, and help give us a fresh

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perspective in a new way. And so, yeah, I

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agree. Sometimes even a sentence that you

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could repeat. My therapist told me this

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great sort of sentence she often repeats

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when she's meditating. And it's like,

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spirit, I'm one with you and loved, you

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00:22:38,654 --> 00:22:40,318
know, just a little like breath prayer. I

449
00:22:40,318 --> 00:22:42,366
had a spiritual director when my kids were

450
00:22:42,366 --> 00:22:43,898
little and I was living in Indonesia. And

451
00:22:43,898 --> 00:22:45,674
she's like, you don't have time for long

452
00:22:45,674 --> 00:22:46,626
devotionals. She's like, I'm going to send

453
00:22:46,626 --> 00:22:49,682
you some breast prayers to just pray. So,

454
00:22:49,682 --> 00:22:52,018
yeah, I'm glad that you address those busy

455
00:22:52,018 --> 00:22:53,714
people because that's just the reality of

456
00:22:53,714 --> 00:22:58,690
our world. And as you are speaking of

457
00:22:58,690 --> 00:23:01,222
busy, you are not only an author, but you

458
00:23:01,222 --> 00:23:04,614
also coach authors and you help people to

459
00:23:04,614 --> 00:23:06,946
write their story, and you have people

460
00:23:06,946 --> 00:23:08,806
joining you for that. And so I'd love to

461
00:23:08,806 --> 00:23:10,954
know a little more about how you approach

462
00:23:10,954 --> 00:23:13,706
the writing process, maybe specifically

463
00:23:13,706 --> 00:23:15,306
with this book or any book. Like, what is

464
00:23:15,306 --> 00:23:18,442
your philosophy of writing, and how do you

465
00:23:18,442 --> 00:23:19,942
explain that to people who are thinking

466
00:23:19,942 --> 00:23:24,400
about writing? That is a really big

467
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:30,062
question. Anywhere you want to take that.

468
00:23:30,062 --> 00:23:36,910
But thank you for asking it. We're all

469
00:23:36,910 --> 00:23:39,634
wired a bit differently, right? So we all

470
00:23:39,634 --> 00:23:41,570
would probably approach writing

471
00:23:41,570 --> 00:23:45,798
differently. What I found is that many

472
00:23:45,798 --> 00:23:48,918
people want to write or know they have a

473
00:23:48,918 --> 00:23:51,414
story to tell, and they want to tell it,

474
00:23:51,414 --> 00:23:57,522
they need to tell it. But how? It's

475
00:23:57,522 --> 00:23:59,850
overwhelming. Just even the thought of a

476
00:23:59,850 --> 00:24:02,554
book, it becomes this really heavy weight

477
00:24:02,554 --> 00:24:04,746
that people are often carrying around on

478
00:24:04,746 --> 00:24:08,538
their shoulders. And I've heard so many

479
00:24:08,538 --> 00:24:11,246
times, someone will say, oh. People say to

480
00:24:11,246 --> 00:24:13,946
me, oh, you have to write a book. Because

481
00:24:13,946 --> 00:24:17,582
I've lived an extraordinary life, and I

482
00:24:17,582 --> 00:24:20,400
believe that we've all lived extraordinary

483
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,954
lives, and I think everybody should write.

484
00:24:23,954 --> 00:24:30,306
And so my starting point is first to say,

485
00:24:30,306 --> 00:24:33,858
you can do it. Everybody can do it.

486
00:24:33,858 --> 00:24:38,774
Anybody can do it. Because good writing is

487
00:24:38,774 --> 00:24:42,534
not actually about writing. It's not about

488
00:24:42,534 --> 00:24:46,534
the words on the page. It's about opening

489
00:24:46,534 --> 00:24:52,026
our heart. It's about seeing the story

490
00:24:52,026 --> 00:24:55,770
that we're living. And once our eyes get

491
00:24:55,770 --> 00:24:59,274
open to the remarkable stories that we

492
00:24:59,274 --> 00:25:03,338
are, each of us, living, oh, my goodness,

493
00:25:03,338 --> 00:25:06,826
it's like opening a dam and stories pour

494
00:25:06,826 --> 00:25:11,834
onto the page. And that's my goal as a

495
00:25:11,834 --> 00:25:15,154
coach, is to empower people to see past

496
00:25:15,154 --> 00:25:18,706
their fears, past the voices in their head

497
00:25:18,706 --> 00:25:20,654
and the voices in their heart and the

498
00:25:20,654 --> 00:25:24,382
voices in their past that tell them, you

499
00:25:24,382 --> 00:25:28,646
can't write or you're this kind of person,

500
00:25:28,646 --> 00:25:33,314
or you can't tell that story, or we will

501
00:25:33,314 --> 00:25:37,454
disown you. All of these voices, right? We

502
00:25:37,454 --> 00:25:41,482
carry them. So my first job is to silence

503
00:25:41,482 --> 00:25:45,850
those voices and then help people

504
00:25:45,850 --> 00:25:48,822
discover, oh, my goodness. Look at this

505
00:25:48,822 --> 00:25:52,634
incredible story that you are living.

506
00:25:52,634 --> 00:25:56,474
Let's start getting it down on the page.

507
00:25:56,474 --> 00:25:58,874
That's incredible. I love that. So

508
00:25:58,874 --> 00:26:01,918
inspiring. And I'm sure that's the reason

509
00:26:01,918 --> 00:26:04,254
people love to be coached by you in terms

510
00:26:04,254 --> 00:26:07,294
of writing, because I think everybody. I

511
00:26:07,294 --> 00:26:09,390
wholeheartedly agree. I think people are

512
00:26:09,390 --> 00:26:10,834
fascinating. I've never met a single

513
00:26:10,834 --> 00:26:12,562
person that I thought, oh, you have

514
00:26:12,562 --> 00:26:14,322
nothing for me to learn from. Everybody

515
00:26:14,322 --> 00:26:18,978
has so much unique perspective. I do

516
00:26:18,978 --> 00:26:20,406
training, and I just have been training

517
00:26:20,406 --> 00:26:22,118
this leadership summit at the headquarters

518
00:26:22,118 --> 00:26:25,126
of the tech company where I work. And as I

519
00:26:25,126 --> 00:26:27,346
was researching for some of it, I was

520
00:26:27,346 --> 00:26:29,526
listening to the Stanford graduate School

521
00:26:29,526 --> 00:26:32,986
of Business professor, and he was talking

522
00:26:32,986 --> 00:26:34,858
with someone, and they said, the way we

523
00:26:34,858 --> 00:26:36,902
listen is so unique to us because the

524
00:26:36,902 --> 00:26:39,254
filters of our brains are based on our own

525
00:26:39,254 --> 00:26:41,386
narratives and our experiences. And so

526
00:26:41,386 --> 00:26:43,106
when we listen, we listen through those

527
00:26:43,106 --> 00:26:45,306
filters of our own life, which is as

528
00:26:45,306 --> 00:26:48,046
unique for every human as our fingerprint.

529
00:26:48,046 --> 00:26:50,234
And it was fascinating. Like, we're so

530
00:26:50,234 --> 00:26:51,470
fascinating, our fingerprints are

531
00:26:51,470 --> 00:26:53,614
different. How we listen is so unique to

532
00:26:53,614 --> 00:26:55,834
us. And, of course, how we would write or

533
00:26:55,834 --> 00:26:57,874
express our story, our unique story would

534
00:26:57,874 --> 00:26:59,874
be really different. It's kind of why I

535
00:26:59,874 --> 00:27:01,474
started this podcast. I love talking with

536
00:27:01,474 --> 00:27:03,186
people and our differences, and I think we

537
00:27:03,186 --> 00:27:05,154
make a difference better together. Right.

538
00:27:05,154 --> 00:27:07,254
So, as you've been coaching and writing

539
00:27:07,254 --> 00:27:09,398
and helping people learn to write their

540
00:27:09,398 --> 00:27:11,782
story, do you see common pitfalls that

541
00:27:11,782 --> 00:27:14,598
people fall into, common obstacles, maybe,

542
00:27:14,598 --> 00:27:16,546
that you're helping people overcome on a

543
00:27:16,546 --> 00:27:20,460
regular basis as a writer coach? Yes,

544
00:27:20,460 --> 00:27:24,346
absolutely. One really common obstacle is

545
00:27:24,346 --> 00:27:28,314
the idea that I'm just living an ordinary

546
00:27:28,314 --> 00:27:30,286
life. I didn't run with the hell's angels

547
00:27:30,286 --> 00:27:34,138
and then get converted, and now I dig

548
00:27:34,138 --> 00:27:36,814
wells for orphanages in Africa. You think,

549
00:27:36,814 --> 00:27:39,390
okay, that's a story, okay, that your

550
00:27:39,390 --> 00:27:43,662
story matters. But me, I'm a soccer mom. I

551
00:27:43,662 --> 00:27:49,470
shop at Walmart. I live in Okie Fenoki,

552
00:27:49,470 --> 00:27:52,580
Florida. And I just have an ordinary life.

553
00:27:52,580 --> 00:27:57,800
But I really want to shift people's lens

554
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,414
to not just the outer story that we're all

555
00:28:01,414 --> 00:28:03,654
living, an outer story where we live,

556
00:28:03,654 --> 00:28:08,314
where we work, the dinner that we fix at

557
00:28:08,314 --> 00:28:11,162
night, all of those things, but we're all

558
00:28:11,162 --> 00:28:15,866
living a very deep inner story and

559
00:28:15,866 --> 00:28:20,220
everyone has a profound inner story. And

560
00:28:20,220 --> 00:28:25,166
so one of my main goals as a writing coach

561
00:28:25,166 --> 00:28:30,240
is to help people find that inner story

562
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:35,154
that twines through their life right back

563
00:28:35,154 --> 00:28:37,714
from their earliest memory. And when

564
00:28:37,714 --> 00:28:40,942
people start to tap into that, they

565
00:28:40,942 --> 00:28:45,700
realize, oh, wow, I am a rather remarkable

566
00:28:45,700 --> 00:28:51,798
person. I love that. That's incredible.

567
00:28:51,798 --> 00:28:53,266
Yeah. And I'm sure you get to hear all

568
00:28:53,266 --> 00:28:55,142
kinds of fascinating things from where you

569
00:28:55,142 --> 00:28:57,320
sit and being able to coach so many

570
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,698
people. If someone's thinking, because I

571
00:29:00,698 --> 00:29:02,826
know we're listening to this podcast here

572
00:29:02,826 --> 00:29:04,442
at the end of the year, it's Christmas

573
00:29:04,442 --> 00:29:06,486
time, and then we're headed into New

574
00:29:06,486 --> 00:29:09,530
Year's resolutions. If somebody's thinking

575
00:29:09,530 --> 00:29:11,274
exactly what you mentioned, people keep

576
00:29:11,274 --> 00:29:12,366
saying, you should write a book, you

577
00:29:12,366 --> 00:29:14,254
should write a book. And they're feeling

578
00:29:14,254 --> 00:29:16,366
this kind of urging, but they don't really

579
00:29:16,366 --> 00:29:19,166
know where to start. What's your advice to

580
00:29:19,166 --> 00:29:24,034
them on how to start? Well, I want to say

581
00:29:24,034 --> 00:29:27,166
sign up for my course. Yes, it's okay to

582
00:29:27,166 --> 00:29:30,322
plug your course. The other thing is

583
00:29:30,322 --> 00:29:33,454
something that's maybe easier and

584
00:29:33,454 --> 00:29:37,798
immediate is a couple of books ago, I have

585
00:29:37,798 --> 00:29:41,142
a book. Your story matters, and that book

586
00:29:41,142 --> 00:29:44,310
will walk you through this writing process

587
00:29:44,310 --> 00:29:48,614
that anybody can do. And I don't mean yes,

588
00:29:48,614 --> 00:29:50,410
it's simple. It's simple enough that

589
00:29:50,410 --> 00:29:54,714
anybody can do it. And yet the profundity

590
00:29:54,714 --> 00:29:58,154
is in the simplicity of the process. And

591
00:29:58,154 --> 00:30:00,746
when something is simpler, people are a

592
00:30:00,746 --> 00:30:03,198
lot more likely to do it. I'm not going to

593
00:30:03,198 --> 00:30:06,958
lay 25 rules on you. I'm going to just

594
00:30:06,958 --> 00:30:10,938
open up this path that is so doable and

595
00:30:10,938 --> 00:30:12,802
it's going to enable you to reach into

596
00:30:12,802 --> 00:30:16,494
that inner story and you're going to be

597
00:30:16,494 --> 00:30:20,866
amazed at what you can do. That's awesome.

598
00:30:20,866 --> 00:30:23,234
I love that. Yeah. Just helping free

599
00:30:23,234 --> 00:30:26,146
people up and serve them as you're trying

600
00:30:26,146 --> 00:30:28,270
to help their stories be born. There's a

601
00:30:28,270 --> 00:30:30,166
lot of people online that when their book

602
00:30:30,166 --> 00:30:31,458
gets published, they'll treat it like a

603
00:30:31,458 --> 00:30:32,886
baby and have these cute little pictures

604
00:30:32,886 --> 00:30:38,726
on instagram. It's a girl. Yeah. There is

605
00:30:38,726 --> 00:30:40,866
an element of it that feels like birthing

606
00:30:40,866 --> 00:30:43,546
something new into the world. And we need

607
00:30:43,546 --> 00:30:46,166
our doulas and we need our nurses and

608
00:30:46,166 --> 00:30:47,706
doctors to help us give birth to baby. And

609
00:30:47,706 --> 00:30:50,522
we need sometimes coaches and people like

610
00:30:50,522 --> 00:30:52,938
you who walk people through the process

611
00:30:52,938 --> 00:30:54,718
and just to sit, cheer us on and be like,

612
00:30:54,718 --> 00:30:56,298
you can do this. So thank you for that

613
00:30:56,298 --> 00:30:57,806
role that you play because it helps us to

614
00:30:57,806 --> 00:30:59,914
get to read these exciting stories as

615
00:30:59,914 --> 00:31:03,742
readers as well. So I want to sort of

616
00:31:03,742 --> 00:31:06,046
finish out here with just some of your

617
00:31:06,046 --> 00:31:08,546
thoughts around the Christmas season. I

618
00:31:08,546 --> 00:31:10,814
know you raised six children. Now you have

619
00:31:10,814 --> 00:31:12,734
grandchildren. Do you have any favorite

620
00:31:12,734 --> 00:31:15,166
Christmas traditions? I mean, I think our

621
00:31:15,166 --> 00:31:17,134
stereotype is Alaska always gets a white

622
00:31:17,134 --> 00:31:18,718
Christmas. I'm not sure if that's true.

623
00:31:18,718 --> 00:31:20,258
But what do you do at Christmas time?

624
00:31:20,258 --> 00:31:23,046
What's your favorite things? Yeah, so one

625
00:31:23,046 --> 00:31:25,400
of my favorite things is something that I

626
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,054
started, boy, I'm going to say, at least

627
00:31:28,054 --> 00:31:31,258
25 years ago, and that is we have this

628
00:31:31,258 --> 00:31:35,946
special Christmas Eve dinner. We often go

629
00:31:35,946 --> 00:31:38,010
to church on Christmas Eve. We have this

630
00:31:38,010 --> 00:31:41,390
beautiful candlelight service, and that's

631
00:31:41,390 --> 00:31:44,590
very common in my faith tradition. I think

632
00:31:44,590 --> 00:31:45,982
everybody looks forward to that,

633
00:31:45,982 --> 00:31:49,450
especially the kids. Like what fire in

634
00:31:49,450 --> 00:31:53,258
church we can have in church, right? But

635
00:31:53,258 --> 00:31:55,730
it's so beautiful. And we sing silent

636
00:31:55,730 --> 00:31:58,366
night, and we hold our candles up in the

637
00:31:58,366 --> 00:32:00,706
dark in church. It's really beautiful. And

638
00:32:00,706 --> 00:32:03,554
then we come home after that and we have

639
00:32:03,554 --> 00:32:10,066
this meal. And I've sort of created it. So

640
00:32:10,066 --> 00:32:12,886
it's actually pigs in a blanket, but we

641
00:32:12,886 --> 00:32:16,214
call it babes and swaddling clothes. So

642
00:32:16,214 --> 00:32:18,762
you take little sausages and you wrap them

643
00:32:18,762 --> 00:32:21,930
in, like, biscuit dough. So we have a

644
00:32:21,930 --> 00:32:25,462
whole sheet of babes and swaddling

645
00:32:25,462 --> 00:32:27,834
clothes. And then we have hay and straw.

646
00:32:27,834 --> 00:32:32,022
So we have this meal of. It's green

647
00:32:32,022 --> 00:32:35,374
fettuccine and whole wheat. So it looks

648
00:32:35,374 --> 00:32:38,174
like hay and straw. Just very simple hay

649
00:32:38,174 --> 00:32:41,278
and straw. And then we have a coleslaw

650
00:32:41,278 --> 00:32:44,242
that I call Mary and Joseph's law. It's

651
00:32:44,242 --> 00:32:47,906
green and purple cabbage. And we eat with

652
00:32:47,906 --> 00:32:50,974
the lights off and with candles. So we

653
00:32:50,974 --> 00:32:54,654
imagine ourselves in the stable where

654
00:32:54,654 --> 00:32:56,854
Jesus was born. And it's a simple meal.

655
00:32:56,854 --> 00:32:59,990
And that's the idea, right? It's a simple

656
00:32:59,990 --> 00:33:02,626
meal. And I think of all our family

657
00:33:02,626 --> 00:33:05,720
traditions, that is probably my kids and

658
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:10,806
my very favorite one. I love that. So

659
00:33:10,806 --> 00:33:12,314
unique to your family and something you

660
00:33:12,314 --> 00:33:15,690
came up just with all of you, that's

661
00:33:15,690 --> 00:33:17,386
obviously going to be special memories,

662
00:33:17,386 --> 00:33:20,218
even with the grandchildren. And some of

663
00:33:20,218 --> 00:33:22,026
the best family traditions are ones like

664
00:33:22,026 --> 00:33:23,626
that, that are just super special and

665
00:33:23,626 --> 00:33:25,614
unique to each family. And traditions

666
00:33:25,614 --> 00:33:27,662
really do draw family together and ground

667
00:33:27,662 --> 00:33:31,102
you. My family of origin, as well as the

668
00:33:31,102 --> 00:33:34,046
family where I'm the mom. We've lived in a

669
00:33:34,046 --> 00:33:35,614
lot of countries, and something that's

670
00:33:35,614 --> 00:33:37,686
always grounded us has been those

671
00:33:37,686 --> 00:33:39,330
traditions that we have carried with us

672
00:33:39,330 --> 00:33:41,298
and helps us know that if everything might

673
00:33:41,298 --> 00:33:43,378
be a little chaotic out there, but we're

674
00:33:43,378 --> 00:33:45,234
okay when we're still doing the thing we

675
00:33:45,234 --> 00:33:47,094
always do this time of year kind of thing.

676
00:33:47,094 --> 00:33:51,302
So it's really special. As we kind of

677
00:33:51,302 --> 00:33:53,062
finish up here, I wanted to give you a

678
00:33:53,062 --> 00:33:57,170
chance to sort of give us some of your

679
00:33:57,170 --> 00:33:58,406
imagination a little bit, because I know

680
00:33:58,406 --> 00:34:03,354
as a writer, you have this creativity, a

681
00:34:03,354 --> 00:34:05,542
part of yourself, and obviously your

682
00:34:05,542 --> 00:34:07,526
tradition of food is showing your creative

683
00:34:07,526 --> 00:34:11,194
style as well. But sometimes we get so

684
00:34:11,194 --> 00:34:15,246
stuck in our ruts of living life, living

685
00:34:15,246 --> 00:34:18,830
this grind. And Christmas time can

686
00:34:18,830 --> 00:34:21,054
sometimes be a time, at least here in the

687
00:34:21,054 --> 00:34:23,214
United States, where we take Christmas day

688
00:34:23,214 --> 00:34:24,766
off. Sometimes people get Christmas eve

689
00:34:24,766 --> 00:34:27,314
off or they're lucky a little bit more.

690
00:34:27,314 --> 00:34:29,154
And in other countries around the world

691
00:34:29,154 --> 00:34:31,602
where there is enough christians,

692
00:34:31,602 --> 00:34:33,106
sometimes people will get that holiday off

693
00:34:33,106 --> 00:34:35,474
as well. But as we're thinking about time

694
00:34:35,474 --> 00:34:37,202
off at the end of the year and spending

695
00:34:37,202 --> 00:34:41,426
time with family, as you've seen some

696
00:34:41,426 --> 00:34:43,926
shifts in our world as a grandma, and you

697
00:34:43,926 --> 00:34:45,622
look back to your childhood and look

698
00:34:45,622 --> 00:34:47,126
forward to the world your grandchildren

699
00:34:47,126 --> 00:34:49,766
are going to be living in, what is some of

700
00:34:49,766 --> 00:34:51,930
your imagination of what you hope for

701
00:34:51,930 --> 00:34:54,506
people as they continue to love one

702
00:34:54,506 --> 00:34:56,666
another and live out the love of God in

703
00:34:56,666 --> 00:34:58,314
their communities? What is something you

704
00:34:58,314 --> 00:35:03,422
hope to see in your grandkids generation?

705
00:35:03,422 --> 00:35:06,254
I haven't told any of my backstory. I grew

706
00:35:06,254 --> 00:35:09,818
up without Christmas. My family was very

707
00:35:09,818 --> 00:35:15,602
poor, and we had no money, nor did we know

708
00:35:15,602 --> 00:35:19,154
about Jesus, the coming of God to be with

709
00:35:19,154 --> 00:35:23,250
us. I didn't know about that until later.

710
00:35:23,250 --> 00:35:27,654
So I came from a place of no celebration

711
00:35:27,654 --> 00:35:34,726
and no joy and no traditions. And so that

712
00:35:34,726 --> 00:35:37,646
has made my own journey, especially as a

713
00:35:37,646 --> 00:35:40,170
mother and now as a grandmother, so much

714
00:35:40,170 --> 00:35:44,086
more thoughtful and so much more

715
00:35:44,086 --> 00:35:46,714
intentional. And that Christmas Eve dinner

716
00:35:46,714 --> 00:35:52,810
that I just described, that was from

717
00:35:52,810 --> 00:35:55,454
deciding, I want to start some traditions.

718
00:35:55,454 --> 00:35:58,142
I want to start some things that anchor

719
00:35:58,142 --> 00:36:01,406
our family. And there's no way that I want

720
00:36:01,406 --> 00:36:04,594
to prescribe to anybody what to do, what

721
00:36:04,594 --> 00:36:08,340
to say, what to think, how to celebrate.

722
00:36:08,340 --> 00:36:15,074
But my vision and my desire and my hope is

723
00:36:15,074 --> 00:36:17,350
that one four letter word that you already

724
00:36:17,350 --> 00:36:20,182
said, and that is love. And that is to

725
00:36:20,182 --> 00:36:24,022
have love for one another and that our

726
00:36:24,022 --> 00:36:27,602
love for one another, that it would be so

727
00:36:27,602 --> 00:36:32,634
full within our families, but that it

728
00:36:32,634 --> 00:36:35,126
would spread outward from our families. I

729
00:36:35,126 --> 00:36:38,474
don't think that our love is intended to

730
00:36:38,474 --> 00:36:42,346
be insular, that it's intended to bind us

731
00:36:42,346 --> 00:36:44,138
together just to our families. I think

732
00:36:44,138 --> 00:36:46,654
it's to bind us together so that then we

733
00:36:46,654 --> 00:36:49,374
are strengthened and filled, to go out

734
00:36:49,374 --> 00:36:51,886
into the world, to go out into the world

735
00:36:51,886 --> 00:36:54,686
and to take this radiant light that's been

736
00:36:54,686 --> 00:36:58,318
born within us and to go out into the

737
00:36:58,318 --> 00:37:01,698
places where it's dark and where it's cold

738
00:37:01,698 --> 00:37:05,358
and where it's lonely and for us to grow

739
00:37:05,358 --> 00:37:10,646
out in love and serve together. And that

740
00:37:10,646 --> 00:37:13,302
is my joy. That is my vision. That is my

741
00:37:13,302 --> 00:37:16,790
hope. And I see my children and my

742
00:37:16,790 --> 00:37:19,306
grandchildren beginning to do that within

743
00:37:19,306 --> 00:37:26,442
their own families. So I am so thankful.

744
00:37:26,442 --> 00:37:29,850
So beautiful, and I'm just so thrilled for

745
00:37:29,850 --> 00:37:34,234
you that you get to see that joy and hope

746
00:37:34,234 --> 00:37:38,106
fulfilled already. What a treasure and a

747
00:37:38,106 --> 00:37:40,074
gift. And I do hope that you and your

748
00:37:40,074 --> 00:37:41,854
families have a very special Christmas

749
00:37:41,854 --> 00:37:44,922
this year. I would love for you to let our

750
00:37:44,922 --> 00:37:46,706
audience know how they can find you in

751
00:37:46,706 --> 00:37:48,594
more of your writing. And if they want to

752
00:37:48,594 --> 00:37:51,506
sign up for coaching with you as well.

753
00:37:51,506 --> 00:37:53,554
Just let people know how they can find

754
00:37:53,554 --> 00:37:56,742
you. Yeah, so I have a website and it's

755
00:37:56,742 --> 00:37:59,634
just my name, so that's really easy.

756
00:37:59,634 --> 00:38:04,886
Leslie leylandfields.com and everything is

757
00:38:04,886 --> 00:38:08,834
on there, including photos of Alaska and

758
00:38:08,834 --> 00:38:10,566
fishing. We are commercial fishermen in

759
00:38:10,566 --> 00:38:12,710
the summer and we live out in the

760
00:38:12,710 --> 00:38:15,194
wilderness, so there's a lot going on in

761
00:38:15,194 --> 00:38:19,180
my life, but most of it is on the website.

762
00:38:19,180 --> 00:38:23,200
So please go there and visit and say

763
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:27,182
hello. Yeah, definitely hope people do

764
00:38:27,182 --> 00:38:29,742
that from all around the world. Such a

765
00:38:29,742 --> 00:38:31,818
special thing to be coached by you. You've

766
00:38:31,818 --> 00:38:33,134
written a couple of really great books

767
00:38:33,134 --> 00:38:35,866
that people have read and then also

768
00:38:35,866 --> 00:38:38,290
helping people and give birth to their own

769
00:38:38,290 --> 00:38:40,066
story in written form. So thank you for

770
00:38:40,066 --> 00:38:42,274
the work that you do, and we're going to

771
00:38:42,274 --> 00:38:43,906
have you continue the conversation with

772
00:38:43,906 --> 00:38:46,258
our difference makers in our other

773
00:38:46,258 --> 00:38:47,662
community. And I'll ask you another

774
00:38:47,662 --> 00:38:49,894
question there for the paid community. But

775
00:38:49,894 --> 00:38:52,054
for now, thank you so much for being on

776
00:38:52,054 --> 00:38:54,726
today. I wish you, Leslie, and your whole

777
00:38:54,726 --> 00:38:57,906
family a very merry Christmas. Thank you,

778
00:38:57,906 --> 00:39:01,126
Lori, and you as well. And to everyone

779
00:39:01,126 --> 00:39:03,514
who's listening well, as. You are sitting

780
00:39:03,514 --> 00:39:06,330
either in a warm or a cold or somewhere in

781
00:39:06,330 --> 00:39:09,190
between plays listening to this Christmas

782
00:39:09,190 --> 00:39:13,054
Advent podcast, I hope that it has brought

783
00:39:13,054 --> 00:39:15,598
some warmth and some light into your heart

784
00:39:15,598 --> 00:39:17,326
and your mind and your spirit today. As

785
00:39:17,326 --> 00:39:20,830
you heard Leslie describe her experience

786
00:39:20,830 --> 00:39:23,370
of writing this book, radiant birth, and

787
00:39:23,370 --> 00:39:26,322
also collecting all the writings that she

788
00:39:26,322 --> 00:39:29,234
read through to prepare for bringing all

789
00:39:29,234 --> 00:39:31,474
these writings together in this book,

790
00:39:31,474 --> 00:39:34,322
which, as she said, was not intended to

791
00:39:34,322 --> 00:39:37,086
tell people what to think or to put

792
00:39:37,086 --> 00:39:40,278
thoughts in people's heads, to sway them

793
00:39:40,278 --> 00:39:41,942
in a particular direction, but just to

794
00:39:41,942 --> 00:39:43,890
offer you the thoughts and the

795
00:39:43,890 --> 00:39:45,446
perspectives of the different writers who

796
00:39:45,446 --> 00:39:48,306
are writing about this advent season

797
00:39:48,306 --> 00:39:50,966
throughout the years. And I hope that you

798
00:39:50,966 --> 00:39:52,474
will get your hands on this book. It's

799
00:39:52,474 --> 00:39:55,446
once again a beautiful cover and it has

800
00:39:55,446 --> 00:39:58,106
brought a lot of light into my life. A

801
00:39:58,106 --> 00:40:00,586
very special radiance this time of year,

802
00:40:00,586 --> 00:40:02,634
which for those of us who are in North

803
00:40:02,634 --> 00:40:04,894
America, I'm in northern California, which

804
00:40:04,894 --> 00:40:07,294
is about as north as I feel free to live.

805
00:40:07,294 --> 00:40:11,546
Being a tropical person myself and used to

806
00:40:11,546 --> 00:40:13,186
consistent amount of light all year round.

807
00:40:13,186 --> 00:40:16,286
As we get closer to the winter solstice,

808
00:40:16,286 --> 00:40:18,546
I'm always feeling the cold darkness and

809
00:40:18,546 --> 00:40:21,986
the longer, darker days in a very embodied

810
00:40:21,986 --> 00:40:25,758
way. And also just my own experience of

811
00:40:25,758 --> 00:40:29,286
the winter solstice was three years ago at

812
00:40:29,286 --> 00:40:32,370
this .1 of the darkest days of my life, of

813
00:40:32,370 --> 00:40:34,482
experiencing a very spiritually abusive

814
00:40:34,482 --> 00:40:37,618
environment in the office where two

815
00:40:37,618 --> 00:40:39,686
pastors kind of really mobbed me and

816
00:40:39,686 --> 00:40:42,154
ambushed me and berated me with questions.

817
00:40:42,154 --> 00:40:46,182
And it was an especially dark day of

818
00:40:46,182 --> 00:40:49,946
December 21 and 2020 for me. And so every

819
00:40:49,946 --> 00:40:52,278
year I celebrate my freedom day and look

820
00:40:52,278 --> 00:40:54,926
for the light, remember that moment and

821
00:40:54,926 --> 00:40:56,558
the light that God gave me in the middle

822
00:40:56,558 --> 00:40:59,086
of that darkness. And also knowing that

823
00:40:59,086 --> 00:41:01,870
some of us experiencing this Christmas

824
00:41:01,870 --> 00:41:04,606
season are experiencing darkness, whether

825
00:41:04,606 --> 00:41:08,494
you've walked through spiritual abuse or

826
00:41:08,494 --> 00:41:10,882
emotional abuse or abuse of any kind, or

827
00:41:10,882 --> 00:41:13,026
also whether you are sitting right now in

828
00:41:13,026 --> 00:41:16,450
a place where peace does not reign, I know

829
00:41:16,450 --> 00:41:19,110
that many of our friends, including I have

830
00:41:19,110 --> 00:41:20,966
friends who are palestinian Christians

831
00:41:20,966 --> 00:41:23,974
from Bethlehem. And Bethlehem is not what

832
00:41:23,974 --> 00:41:26,502
it has been in years past this year. And

833
00:41:26,502 --> 00:41:28,970
even the Christmas celebrations that are

834
00:41:28,970 --> 00:41:32,106
public have been canceled because of the

835
00:41:32,106 --> 00:41:33,786
situation there. And there is a darkness

836
00:41:33,786 --> 00:41:39,366
that is really heavy in the place where

837
00:41:39,366 --> 00:41:43,134
Jesus was born and where we worldwide

838
00:41:43,134 --> 00:41:44,686
think about this city every year. And

839
00:41:44,686 --> 00:41:47,934
there is a darkness and a heaviness where

840
00:41:47,934 --> 00:41:50,830
we sing about joy and peace. And this

841
00:41:50,830 --> 00:41:53,150
year, it's not as easily or readily

842
00:41:53,150 --> 00:41:55,594
available to many of us, especially those

843
00:41:55,594 --> 00:41:58,254
in this part of the world that we are so

844
00:41:58,254 --> 00:42:01,666
mindful about right now. And I also am

845
00:42:01,666 --> 00:42:03,666
just mindful of those of you who have lost

846
00:42:03,666 --> 00:42:07,506
a loved one very recently. We have friends

847
00:42:07,506 --> 00:42:10,306
of our family, a beloved mother that

848
00:42:10,306 --> 00:42:13,286
passed away, a friend of my husband's

849
00:42:13,286 --> 00:42:14,978
where he was growing up in Thailand that

850
00:42:14,978 --> 00:42:16,486
passed away recently. I know many of you

851
00:42:16,486 --> 00:42:19,050
have lost loved ones this time of year, in

852
00:42:19,050 --> 00:42:21,690
past years, and this is a reminder of that

853
00:42:21,690 --> 00:42:24,058
loss. Or many of you are walking through

854
00:42:24,058 --> 00:42:27,082
difficult situations, such as a surprising

855
00:42:27,082 --> 00:42:29,654
health diagnosis in this season. And

856
00:42:29,654 --> 00:42:32,700
Christmas is not what it was in years

857
00:42:32,700 --> 00:42:35,698
past. And maybe you also are celebrating

858
00:42:35,698 --> 00:42:37,262
Hanukkah this time of year. And this has

859
00:42:37,262 --> 00:42:40,650
also been a time of loss and mourning and

860
00:42:40,650 --> 00:42:42,494
grief because of what your family has gone

861
00:42:42,494 --> 00:42:45,042
through, or maybe what through relatives

862
00:42:45,042 --> 00:42:48,100
have been going through in Israel at the

863
00:42:48,100 --> 00:42:50,158
moment. I know there are many

864
00:42:50,158 --> 00:42:52,946
perspectives, many tragedies, many losses

865
00:42:52,946 --> 00:42:54,766
that can come at a time of year where

866
00:42:54,766 --> 00:42:56,774
you're expecting joy and hope and peace

867
00:42:56,774 --> 00:42:59,206
and light, and if you're needing just to

868
00:42:59,206 --> 00:43:03,446
be reminded of that, I do really encourage

869
00:43:03,446 --> 00:43:05,894
you to pick up this book, radiant birth,

870
00:43:05,894 --> 00:43:07,906
because it's not one person's perspective.

871
00:43:07,906 --> 00:43:09,990
It's many people's writings throughout

872
00:43:09,990 --> 00:43:12,426
time that have shown us where the light is

873
00:43:12,426 --> 00:43:14,934
and where the radiance iS. And even in the

874
00:43:14,934 --> 00:43:17,354
darkest of days, my experience is that if

875
00:43:17,354 --> 00:43:19,626
we look for the light, we will find it,

876
00:43:19,626 --> 00:43:22,354
and it will somehow bring us comfort and

877
00:43:22,354 --> 00:43:25,214
peace in a very embodied way. And so

878
00:43:25,214 --> 00:43:27,182
whether you're needing to take a walk

879
00:43:27,182 --> 00:43:30,174
outside in know one or 2 hours, where you

880
00:43:30,174 --> 00:43:32,574
experience light in northern Alaska right

881
00:43:32,574 --> 00:43:34,206
now, or whether you're blessed to be in

882
00:43:34,206 --> 00:43:36,522
the tropical warm zones of the world,

883
00:43:36,522 --> 00:43:38,334
experiencing a lot of sunshine, or

884
00:43:38,334 --> 00:43:39,538
particularly in the southern hemisphere

885
00:43:39,538 --> 00:43:40,994
where you're getting a lot of sunshine

886
00:43:40,994 --> 00:43:43,538
these days, I hope that wherever you are,

887
00:43:43,538 --> 00:43:45,374
that you will look for that light and the

888
00:43:45,374 --> 00:43:47,586
radiance, and that you will just allow it

889
00:43:47,586 --> 00:43:50,486
to soak into your eyes and into your body

890
00:43:50,486 --> 00:43:52,694
and into your soul in ways that give you

891
00:43:52,694 --> 00:43:56,326
just a moment of comfort and peace when

892
00:43:56,326 --> 00:43:58,520
the world seems to be a little bit out of

893
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,402
control. And I know that many of you are

894
00:44:01,402 --> 00:44:03,194
in the zones of the world where you're

895
00:44:03,194 --> 00:44:05,814
making a difference and trying to bring

896
00:44:05,814 --> 00:44:07,626
healing and peace, especially those of you

897
00:44:07,626 --> 00:44:10,694
who are working in the area of Israel and

898
00:44:10,694 --> 00:44:13,374
Gaza right now. And I just thank you for

899
00:44:13,374 --> 00:44:16,014
the great work that you do and hope that

900
00:44:16,014 --> 00:44:18,622
you are also finding ways to experience

901
00:44:18,622 --> 00:44:20,478
light in that particular part of the

902
00:44:20,478 --> 00:44:23,338
world, especially when the whole world's

903
00:44:23,338 --> 00:44:26,558
eyes are on this location right now. And I

904
00:44:26,558 --> 00:44:31,826
pray that you find peace very soon for

905
00:44:31,826 --> 00:44:33,506
your loved ones and your friends that you

906
00:44:33,506 --> 00:44:35,634
are working with and trying to bring hope

907
00:44:35,634 --> 00:44:38,226
to there. We know that many decision

908
00:44:38,226 --> 00:44:40,710
makers around the world are having to make

909
00:44:40,710 --> 00:44:43,590
hard calls, both politically and in the

910
00:44:43,590 --> 00:44:45,634
business world, the education world, the

911
00:44:45,634 --> 00:44:47,926
nonprofit world. And for those of you who

912
00:44:47,926 --> 00:44:50,502
are doing that, we also hope that you are

913
00:44:50,502 --> 00:44:52,442
looking for the light and making decisions

914
00:44:52,442 --> 00:44:54,474
based on the light, because the darkness

915
00:44:54,474 --> 00:44:56,394
can sometimes feel like it's overcoming

916
00:44:56,394 --> 00:44:58,906
us, or we don't feel we have good choices

917
00:44:58,906 --> 00:45:01,994
that we can make. So, once again, all the

918
00:45:01,994 --> 00:45:05,134
more reason to pick up this book and to

919
00:45:05,134 --> 00:45:08,554
just dig into the words of others

920
00:45:08,554 --> 00:45:10,426
throughout time. I'm so appreciative of

921
00:45:10,426 --> 00:45:11,646
Leslie and the work that she's done in

922
00:45:11,646 --> 00:45:13,166
this book, the way she's compiled these,

923
00:45:13,166 --> 00:45:14,746
the way she did so much research and

924
00:45:14,746 --> 00:45:17,278
reading to bring it together in this form,

925
00:45:17,278 --> 00:45:19,298
and it's such a gift to us. And to the

926
00:45:19,298 --> 00:45:21,118
world, and along with many of her other

927
00:45:21,118 --> 00:45:22,386
writings and other books. Check out her

928
00:45:22,386 --> 00:45:24,706
other books I mentioned in the intro. She

929
00:45:24,706 --> 00:45:27,506
is an award winning author and her books

930
00:45:27,506 --> 00:45:29,186
have really meant a lot to many people.

931
00:45:29,186 --> 00:45:31,094
She's written 14 books, not just this one.

932
00:45:31,094 --> 00:45:34,166
So check out her other books as well and

933
00:45:34,166 --> 00:45:36,902
stay tuned. Those of you who are in our

934
00:45:36,902 --> 00:45:38,746
difference maker community because we are

935
00:45:38,746 --> 00:45:40,774
going to be dropping a special exclusive

936
00:45:40,774 --> 00:45:43,594
episode for you where she goes into a

937
00:45:43,594 --> 00:45:45,914
little more deeper about her experiences

938
00:45:45,914 --> 00:45:49,254
around the world. She has some kind of

939
00:45:49,254 --> 00:45:52,266
wild tales in there of things that she's

940
00:45:52,266 --> 00:45:54,286
experienced, both just her and her husband

941
00:45:54,286 --> 00:45:56,906
and as a family raising her six kids and

942
00:45:56,906 --> 00:46:00,442
choices they have made to make travel a

943
00:46:00,442 --> 00:46:02,910
priority and the educational nature of

944
00:46:02,910 --> 00:46:04,414
travel itself. So we dig a little deeper

945
00:46:04,414 --> 00:46:06,062
with her in our difference maker

946
00:46:06,062 --> 00:46:08,406
community. So we're releasing an exclusive

947
00:46:08,406 --> 00:46:10,274
episode for you there. And if you are not

948
00:46:10,274 --> 00:46:11,874
yet a part of our difference maker

949
00:46:11,874 --> 00:46:13,618
community, this is a very warm welcome for

950
00:46:13,618 --> 00:46:15,214
you to join. Maybe give yourself a

951
00:46:15,214 --> 00:46:17,794
Christmas gift this year. It's only $5 a

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00:46:17,794 --> 00:46:20,518
month to join at our most basic level and

953
00:46:20,518 --> 00:46:22,886
you can cancel anytime. But just yeah, try

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00:46:22,886 --> 00:46:24,754
us out for a month. There's tons of

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exclusive episodes in there and other

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00:46:26,310 --> 00:46:28,882
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00:46:28,882 --> 00:46:30,854
episodes. If you are interested in helping

958
00:46:30,854 --> 00:46:33,914
us plan for 2024 and want to see some

959
00:46:33,914 --> 00:46:35,626
particular topics covered, you can go in

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there and vote in our upcoming poll. And

961
00:46:38,170 --> 00:46:39,546
yeah, we'd love to have you in there to

962
00:46:39,546 --> 00:46:40,938
dig a little deeper with some of our

963
00:46:40,938 --> 00:46:43,146
guests where we go into these exclusive

964
00:46:43,146 --> 00:46:47,742
episodes with them. So that's

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love for you to join us today to go a

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little bit deeper with us there. Once

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again, thank you for all of you who are

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making a difference around the world,

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happy holidays to those of you that

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Christmas, and of course upcoming New

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Year's Eve celebrations all around the

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world. So we are so grateful for each of

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you that listen, this means so much to me

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want to say, may you have peace, hope and

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light in your life wherever you're

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listening to this podcast and keep making

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